Have I still got a chance with her what is she thinking?

Question

I need the courage to physce my self up and call my ex girlfriend I really miss her and want her bk what should I say Me and my ex girlfriend we're together for a year and a half and we weren't just boyfriend girlfriend we were also best friends and I miss her everyday. Whilst we were broken up she saw a pic of me on facebook talking to another girl and she got really angry and said we'd never get back together now and then she said she likes somebody else. And she had a go at me for going out loads but we're not together soo why is she bothered and she goes out patrying more than me anyway. I want her back badly what do I do to get her back.

We broke up about 6 weeks ago because I got drunk at her prom and embrassed her in front of her family and friends. We've broken up before and she said if we ever broke up again we would never get back together. But when I tried to get her back via calling her, txting her and emailing her she said no but she also said if you stop beig stupid we could get back together and if we stay friends maybe we'll get back together. And we went shopping the other week and it was fun talkng about the old days and we arranged to go out more often to the cinema but ever since then she has said she's too busy and we're not meant to be. What should I do to get her back please any advice I'm trying to get the courage to ring her and talk to her thanks. And is 6 weeks too late (but I've seen her 3 times during those three weeks, she saw me at a party and got reaaly angry with me and I went round to her house to plead with her to get back with me lol and she asked me to go shopping with her). We were together for ages is she really over me or just saying it because I ruined her prom. Because we were going out for a year and a half I spent alot of my free time with her and we were really close. But she I sent her a txt yday and she hasn't replied is that because she's thinknig about it I mean if she dosen't like me wouldn't she reply telling me to go away. Is there still any chance she will get bk together with me Iove her soo much

Answer 1

Unfortunately, by her ignoring you and not returning your calls and texts, she is telling you to go away and leave her alone for awhile. She has the right to be as angry as she wants to you, you've ruined her prom,one of the most memorable nights that everyone looks back on. I'd say back off for awhile, otherwise you risk losing her forever. You may have to deal with the fact that she may not want to be in a relationship with you anymore, but may just want to work on being friends with you.  

Answer 2

Just wait a little bit more,she may still be very angry...But if she keeps on not answering your sms or calls,not greeting u when she sees u and avoiding u....then you'll probably have to forget about her,sorry :-( !

Answer 3

It sounds like you have become obsessed with her. Careful here, you sound like you are stalking her. If you keep letting her use you for a door mat, she will loose respect for you and move on.

Give it a rest and see if she misses you. If she does, she will contact you, if she doesn't miss you, then it is over and no matter how hard it hurts, you have to forget her and move on.

Answer 4

You have ruined your chance. To her you are not dependable. Try changing and be a little more considerate of others.  

Answer 5

You messed up big time.

Wait till she not to angry and talk to her. tell her that you can't live without her and you love her. Tell her you miss her and that your really sorry and that she is the only girl for you.  

Answer 6

Forget it man,no one is worth ruining you life for. There are many more out there that are better than her so go out and find them. You'll find out that it's more fun to scout around.

Answer 7

Realistically, no you dont "love her so much" or you wouldnt be in this boat at all. You two sound like two little first grade school kids trying to play an adult game. Neither of you has any clue as to how to truly treat each other in a relationship.  This on again-off again scenario will continue forever until you both grow up and learn to compromise in love and life without trying to be the controller of this relationship. Until you two learn this,you have and will continue to have nothing more than playing a childs game of what you two perceive a love relationship to be like. Theres no sense apologizing to her and telling her you want her back and all that stuff when you really dont mean it but just want her back so YOU can dump her and make her look like the bad guy. Stay apart and grow up and try again in about a hundred years...... just kidding but give it some time apart. If you think Im wrong just reread your question slowly