Have a newborn? How would you like to start over again so soon?

Question

I recently had my beautiful twin girls. I also recently found out I was pregnant again. I had a really hard time deciding what I should do... I wasn't sure if my body was ready for it. (I just had a c-section) But I decided I'm going to go through with it. I would love to hear of other stories of other moms out there that have gone through what I am now.... If you got pregnant right after giving birth was it planned? I was on birth control that wasn't really working for me. How did you deal and how's life now with kids so close in age. I have a 2 yr old boy and 4 month old twin girls.... Would love to hear some stories.

Answer 1

oh wow!!! congrats!! well im not exactly in the same boat but sort of similar. Im 26 i have a 22 month old boy and 6 month old boy/girl twins. We have thought about another but ive since changed my mind. You will be fine though im sure. How are you going so far with your littlies?? I can send you my email if you want to chat!

Answer 2

WOW! If i didnt know better, id say i wrote that! LoL I have a 4 year old and a 6 month old. (both girls) when my youngest was 3 months, i found out i was pregnant, again! I WAS on bc, but my doc nevr informed me that taking antibiotic prevented bc from working. my dentist gave me z-pac for tooth infection and thats when i got pregnant! I was so depressed about the news.. I made an app for an abortion (which i DO NOT believe in) when i was about 4-6 weeks along but couldnt bring myself to go. I cried for weeks, didnt talk to anyone, including the hubby. I was resentful toward him because he told me he wanted to have the baby. I didnt even want to go by my own daughters because i felt like such a bad mother for wanting an abortion. Now im 13 weeks pregnant and my moods change about the pregnancy. Sometimes Im happy and excited and other times im crying because im not ready for another baby so soon. My hair has been falling out for two months..im always exhausted no matter how much sleep i get..I have headaches on a daily basis! and i feel more like im eating for 3 and sleeping for 6! lol..(there is only one in there tho, that was my first question) Our bodies are still trying to heal from our previous pregnancies..so preg symtoms are 100 times worse..our bodies havent recovered and were putting them threw it all over again! This pregnancy was not planned..and i dont know how im going to deal with it, but i know i will love and care for my new baby as much as my first two! and im sure you will do the same! good luck with your pregnancy!