Have any of you girls experienced closure after sleeping with a guy??

Question

It's so strange...I was like obsessed with this guy that I like, and I saw him this weekend for like 2 days, and we had s*x and he sort of got on my nerves lol and now it's almost like...b/c I saw him and slept with him...I feel like it's closure for me to move on and find someone else...but had I not seen him this weekend (he doesnt live here) I would still be wanting and thinking about him...has that ever happened to you?

Answer 1

um no but i dated a guy like a year ago and i still thought about him quite alot and never quite got over him and then randomly he got in touch the other day and we chatted quite a bit and i suddenly realised 'why did i spend so much time pineing over him?! i am soo over him!'

i guess it was like a closure for me! and im soo happy i feel free at last! woo!!! haha :)

Answer 2

Nah, it's never been like that for me.  It might be more like satisfying my curiosity.

Answer 3

That's perfectly normal. Many girls desire a guy for a while, and when they get their chance with them they learn more about them and it changes their opinion. It's happened to me before, and it's nothing to worry about. Just move on, but if he's still into you I'd suggest putting him down gently and not showing off a new guy to him so soon.

Answer 4

so u just slept with him haha OMFG!!!!

Answer 5

Don't know. I don't sleep around.

Answer 6

Yes, its just the excitment of trying to get someone and once they give in, sometimes we lose interest...

Answer 7

no cuz i will never sleep around one guy to sleep with is enough  

Answer 8

its called "getting it out of your system" and it happens all the time.  Not to me specifically, but people very often have this feeling.

Answer 9

Some people find other ways for closure then to spread your legs.

Marco!

Answer 10

I wish

I slept with somebody 5 months ago, and i still want them now as much as i wanted them that day

x*x

Answer 11

yeh as soon as i slept with him i got closure and crossed over

i went into the light

Answer 12

It was probably just lust! lol

But be careful - he's got on your nerves coz you've spent time with him

Have some time apart and you might start thinking about him again and the whole cycle starts up again

I hope its just a one weekend stand and you really don't want to see him again ... sometimes its better that way!!