Have any of you girls got preg. at a young age...?

Question

i read about ppl tellin ppl not to have s*x when they think there ready or they think there to young... i was 15 when i lost mine and i'm still with my bf that i lost it to... and i have no kids no diseases no anything i want to know what you girls have to say that had kids in that age do u regret it or the kid... or do u sit here tellin kids hey i think ur too young when they can think for themselfs... and no smart remarks there just rude and i dont want to hear them....

Answer 1

I had a baby at 16 and I dont regret it at all.  What I do regret is losing so much of my childhood and I hate that I wasnt in a steady and stable relationship when he was born.  I feel like I didnt (or wasnt able to) offer him the best that a mother could because I wasnt as mature as I thought I was and I had to go through a few things before I figured out what my priorities were.  He is 8 years old now and I love him to death.  I know however that if I had been responsible and waited that I could have offered him the stable home and consistant love that I wasnt ready to provide when he was born.

Answer 2

i was 18 when i had my son. not so young as you but still very young.

unfortunatly teenagers have the neat little ability to only hear what they want to hear at times.

teenagers have been having s*x since the beginning of time. nothing you or i say or do is really going to stop that.

all we can do is try to keep them safe and educate them on the dangers and consiqences.

Answer 3

well tough, your still? What's it been? A year? Please. Give it 3-5 and u won't be. No, they don't think for themselves. They are too young, it's a mistake.

Answer 4

i was 17 when i got pregnant but it was not the guy i lost my virginity to. i lost my virginity when i was 12-i was raped. then i dated a guy for 3 years and had s*x with him voluntarily after dating for 6 months and yes i wish i had waited to have s*x and to act all grown up. now i am 21 married to the father of my 2 kids and trying for one last baby before he gets snipped. i do not regret sleeping with my husband or getting pregnant though. i love my kids and my husband and never imagined life being this great after how much i screwed up while growing up.

Answer 5

I had my daughter young, i was scared and confused at first, but she was always a blessing, im going to say 14 and 15 is young to have s*x.... you dont know what your body wants or really how it works, but having a baby is a BIG responsibility, it interfered w/ school, work and my social life, but if your ready for that than more power to you! it sure makes you grow up overnight (having a baby) no matter what ur age is

Answer 6

i lost my virginity when i was 16 and the condom busted and i got pregnant right away.. i wouldvt never thought about getting an abortion with my first pregnancy plus me and him were together for 1 and about two months before we had s*x! so i had the baby i was so excited and he is not 8 months and i am 17.. about to turn 18 sept 28th i am so excited my son is the best thing that has ever happened.i work and i have graduated. i love being a mom i dont regret getting pregnant at all.. i am living on my own.. just me and my son.. he daddy takes him once a week sometimes twice..i am so happy this happened to be this young.. he is such a blessing to me he is my world and my life and i do it all for him..

AND FOR ALL THOSE PEOPLE THAT CRITICIZE YOUNG MOTHERS IM SORRY BUT THEY ARE STUP!D.

BECAUSE NOT ALL YOUNG GIRLS ARE NOT THE SAME SOME DONT DO WELL ..AND I AM DOING JUST FINE AND IM GIVING HIM EVERYTHING THAT HE NEEDS..

Answer 7

I lost mine at 18 and was with the guy 2 weeks afterwards.Then I got with my now husband in dec.2005 and he asked me to marry him on june 14 2006 I found out I was preggo on Sept 11 2006 and so we got married Dec 2 2006. I think it al depends on you.Cause no matter what people preach at you you're your own person.

Answer 8

Hello i was 17 when i had my son and i have been with my man for 5 years we met when i was just turned 15 and we are still going strong now and we are actively trying to conceive another. I t was the best thing i have ever done i love my life and i wouldn't change it for the world and i believe that i find it easier and more enjoyable then older women. And my opinion is if you are in a a stable relationship and you are able to support the child then i don't see a problem. I think it is horrible when you hear of young girls who have a baby and don't know who the father is and cant support it etc. But there is such a stigma on young mums and it gets me so angry. Good luck for the futurexxxx

Answer 9

Yes, I was 15 when I had my daughter and 18 when I had my son...I ABSOLUTELY DO NOT regret any of it!  I am not goin to say that it was easy but really if you think about it people who are 30 years old when they have their first can't say it's easy either!!! I am now 25 my daughter is 9 1/2 and my son will be 7 in Oct. they are happy healthy wonderful children and I could not asked for anything better than them!!! I am still with their dad we got married last year and we are currently expecting our 3rd miracle!!!

Answer 10

I was a mom at 16 and i know the struggles and difficulty it is to be a mom at that age. I do tell them that they need to be responsible because it is true. If i could get one person to see just how much they will lose being a parent so young then i think i did help this world out in a very small way. You get all these questions about these teenagers who get pregnant and they ask what they need to do... how they need to tell their parents..... and more importantly how they are not ready to be a parent. Then they want to go off and get an abortion and kill an innocent baby just because they did not take the proper precautions to NOT get in that situation. I kept my daughter and I am d**n proud i did too. she is my gift from god... when there are questions on here about teenagers who are keeping their babies- they do not get scrutinized- they get praise for being responsible. And no i do not regret having my daughter at such a young age... i do wish however that I did not jump into adult activities before being ready. It is very hard to be a young mom... especially when you are so far from being ready....  And by the way- if they could think for themselves they would not be coming on here asking for advice.... not to mention we would not have to deal with so many teens going and getting abortions... those babies could be brought up in a home that deserves that child.

Answer 11

Wow. Is your mom happy you are on the same path as she was? You, of ALL people, should be smarter.

Answer 12

I was 15 when I lost my virginity and it was with the best person I could do it in the whole world :-) I do not regret, of course.

I never got pregnant, never caught diseases...we both use protection - usually he is with a condom but since I went on birth control recently, we do it without a condom.