Have i done the right thing,?

Question

I had met and dated a lovely man and we were talking about getting engaged in a few months however due to a situation he needed to return home for six weeks,during this time his behavior was very different, when he spoke to me it was with aggression or passiveness, if i missed his call he left me aerated messages asking why i not picked up,to the point it just scared me,he didn't take the break up very well but i do wonder if i to harsh on him as he said he under a lot of stress

Answer 1

I think you did the right thing if he was under stress that dosent mean he needs to take all his anger on you anyways why didnt he tell that in the first place you would of probably tried to help him out if your werent comfortable then its just better to move on

i hoped i  kind of helped you

Answer 2

U break it up when he said he under a lot of stress. Then u felt a stress by asking have u done the right thing. Wondering where has that lovely man gone in that 6 weeks.Why are U getting engaged in a few months when a simple change of situation altered the course.

Call him back and get going ,no promises ,no right or wrong just get along.

Answer 3

i think you finally got to see his true colors. shouldn't he be sweet when you call because he missed you?  you got out at just the right time.  good for you.

Answer 4

Yes, you did the right thing by breaking up with him. His aggression would only get worse and he uses stress as an excuse.

Answer 5

Maybe you should have tried to talk to him first or gave him a little time to see if that was the new him or if he was just stressed out.

Answer 6

He does not love you with all his heart - pure love is giving and not possessing (as he does). Do not underestimate yourself and don't rely on what he said (every man simply said that to take your sympathy).