Have lost interest in s*x with my husband?

Question

he doesn;t turn me on,but am always craving sexually,i m********e myself instead,love him but no other attractions.the thing is he only wants me to be dominant and climp on top,he don't make an effort to make love to me,am always the one,i don't have the hotts for him what so ever,he never seduce me or take me out,i feel a waste,anyone can advice me on that.am not cheating,whenever i m********e i always picture him in mind.help anyone?.

Answer 1

My husbands like certain things in the bedroom and I tell him not until I've had at least one o****m!.. Good luck..

Answer 2

You need counseling.  You also might consider asking him why s*x is always the same routine, and encourage him to try something different.  Variety is indeed good.

Answer 3

It seems like the reason you're not attracted to him right now is because of the way he treats you. you should talk to him and hopefully find out why he doesn't take the lead. Remember to speak up for yourself and let him know what you want from him. A marriage should be 50/50.

Answer 4

Tell him how you feel.

Answer 5

ehhh.. ok why not try bringing some toys in to the bed room, videos?? some stuff like that.. or tell him, cause im sure once he'll know then he will find some ways to pleasure u better... but it could be something humiliating for him..

hmm

good luck

Answer 6

Maybe you need to sit him and down and talk to him. That is probably the problem, communication. If you told him how every once in a while you would appreciate the effort from him to do what YOU want for a change, he would think about it and you would both be happier.  

Answer 7

let me help

Answer 8

I'll add two cents:

Let him know what you want him to do. Tell him you'd be more interested in s*x if he took you out more often, made more effort to get you off, and whatever the heck it is you want him to do (or picture him doing when you are taking care of yourself).

I think he might do some of it, if he gets a little more action out of it.

Answer 9

let him watch you pet the kitty!