Have me and him grown apart from each other?

Question

I recently had a baby and have dealt with some postpartum depression, especially because it was Cesarean and with that comes a great change in my body, I feel so unattractive , I felt like when I was pregnant. Well the problem has being that even before my boyfriend and I slept in different beds and zero s*x, he said it was because he didn't want to accidentically kick me, but now I had the baby and it's still the same I'm 8 weeks postpartum and still. Our relationship is getting more distant we hardly talk and when we do is about our baby! I feel like he is more my roommate than my boyfriend is that normal what can I do or is it too late?

Answer 1

I feel like I am looking into a mirror of my marriage for the last 8 years.  We never slept in the same room/bed or had s*x.  He was having s*x with his secretary.  I was an idiot and did not see the writing on the wall.  Once I began to feel like we were roommates I started questioning our marriage and started talking.  I found out about her after I moved out.

Answer 2

Sounds like life changing stress. Stick with it, it will probably get better :)