My step-son is 4 years old and starts preschool this week. We're extremely excited for him...except for one small problem....
He is fully potty trained for day and night time...hasn't had an accident in about 3 months at all, period. But he is reluctant to wipe himself after a bowl movement. My husband and I have tried everything we can think of to help encourange him. (His son lives with us fulltime, the mother isn't in the picture at all, so he isn't getting any negative reenforcement elsewhere)
The preschool he will be attending said they will remove him within 30 days if we can not teach him to wipe himself becuase the teachers don't like to deal with the mess. but this same preschool accepts 3 year olds as well. I know some children learn to wipe themselves at an early age....but i know many who are barely potty trained by three, much less taking care of that all too important function.
I guess what I am asking is for some advice on teaching him to wipe himself. He's a smart kid, patient, good attention span, and learns quickly...just this one small problem we've run into. I don't want it to cause him to miss out on a pretty important part of childhood development.
Not only am I asking for advice, but i'm also asking if anyone else has had the problem of a 3-6 year old not wanting to wipe themselves. I suppose a bit of reassurance that I'm not failing at this whole parenthood thing. lol
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