Have to initiate contact with coworker/friend-should I play hard to get?

Question

Is it best to play hard to get when you do most of the initiating (emails, p/c's, visits) and he doesn't? Yes, I do have a thing for him & I think he does for me, but I feel that he isn't that into me if I have to do all of the initiating. He is always VERY receptive and happy when I initiate contact and we sometimes email each other all day at work. He was the last to contact me and he did say it had been a while since he had heard from me. Three weeks have passed & I still haven't responded to his email. I want him to chase after our friendship like I feel I've done with him. Is this a good idea? I did turn him down twice a long time ago for a short lunch.

Answer 1

Pfft i talk with someone on msn i have to constantly chase they only want to talk when they have a problem and they never bother to want to do anything fun so i'm fed up i say don't bother with them find someone who actually makes an equal effort