Have u ever given your number 2 a co-worker & regretted it later?

Question

Here's the story.A new guy stars working @ ur job.U innocently flirt.He asks if u have a man spouse/b/f.Ur response is no.But u have been seeing someone 4 a few yrs who isn't ready 4 a relationship yet. So all u can be is friends.Since u won't accept his advances he calls u the b word whenever he says smart things 2 u.When my friend approaches him like a MAN.He says that u r mad b/c u like him & he doesn't like u so u start arguments w/him 2 avoid a butt whipping 4 calling u the b word.Now he is trying 2 be my friend again.I told him we will NEVER have ANYTHING 2 say 2 each other unless it is work related b/c he tried 2 unsuccessfully cause problems 4 me & my friend.He went back inside the job talking about he wasn't afraid of anyone.B/c the MAN my friend is,he didn't make a scene inside the job.Now every time he sees my friend & I he goes the other way 2 avoid confrontation. WE pay him no attention b/c he isn't worth our time.

Answer 1

wow... yeah i totally know what you mean. i don't know how to directly reject a guy when they ask me for my number, especially at work when you know you'll have to see him everyday. i worked at a restaurant as a waitress and i gave my number to one of the guys who worked in the kitchen. boy was that a bad idea. i have no interest in him whatsoever and i don't really show him that i am (other than giving him my # :/ ) but he calls me all the time. he knows that i'm in a different city now too! work relationships suck -- and they're weird! haha