Have you adopted a child?

Question

My wife wants to adopt a child and I'm okay with it for the most part but I am worried about one thing. We already have two kids that we had together and I am worried I will not love the adopted child as much as my blood children. Also I'm worried I will treat the adopted child differently than my other two children. Obviously I wouldn't mean to do this conciously but I'm still afraid it would happen. I know I would still love the adopted child that me and my wife raised together but I'm afraid maybe not as much as my birth children.

Has anyone who has adopted a child and also had other children dealt with this? Do you find you treat your adopted child differently? Is it possible to love your adopted child as much as your birth children?

I know everyone would like to say yes, but I am looking for absolutely HONEST answers.

Answer 1

i  want to give my child on adoption but please i don't know how to start on this but i feel that if you give me your time i can explain my self better am in a situation that i don't know what to do. hope that you get back so that i can tell you more about my self.here is my mail address([e-mail])