Have you been in this position girls?

Question

If a girl breaks up because she isn't ready for a relationship (getting over her ex), yet still stays in touch by text and wants to meet up occasionally is that because she's lonely, likes you as a friend only or maybe wants to get back one day? Just want to know if you've been in that situation (I know each situation is different), just your views?

Answer 1

my brother has just split up with his gf

and they cannot stop ringing eachother!!!

its because they was together for a long time.

i mean say if i was with someone for a day

i would probaly forget about them

because we would be like KISS HUG

bye.

but tbh it depends on how long you have been with them

6months??

pretty long

unless you have hd longer than that.

it depends really

i mean usualyy you can tell by the way there texting like

LY

at the end

or jus x

or if all they want too do is see you

then they still like you,

well ur question..

most girls or boys end with

'' lets be mates tho still ''

just too not make them look upset

but 60% dont even talk again.

and maybe anyway they will get back one day

depending on how they feel

hope i helped

xxxxx

Answer 2

I can relate to that. Except that her ex refuse to let her go. She and I are very close. Lovers if you will. I touch her where a guy shouldn't have touch. And she was ok with it. And she allow me to touch her also. But the relationship between she and I will never be anything more than just friend/lovers/intimate friends. We will never be bf and gf.

In case you're wondering, NO!, I'm not the cause for her breaking up. I know her longer than her ex does. The reason she broke up with him is because he likes to control her. Giving her little or no freedom for herself, family and friends. He wants her to dedicate all her time and energy on him and no one else. But just like in your case, she just wanna be plain friends. She still wanna stays in touch and meet up occasionally but only as friends, regardless of relationships. It can be ex, new friends, old friends. Nothing more. Just because the relationship is over doesn't mean the friendship is over either.

Answer 3

she probably likes you, but just needs time to get over her ex, would you rather her have a relationship now when she's not ready, and her use you as a rebound, or would you rather she took the time, you stayed in touch and see how things go. if she wants to meet up that's great, that shows she still likes you, but maybe not as a boyfriend yet.

Answer 4

She probably does only like you as a friend at the moment. But is probably also exploring the possibility of having something more with you she probably just wants to know you more to be sure, especially if she has had problems with an ex she probably does not want a repeat.

Answer 5

she keeps him around for the company, so she will not be alone, but not making any commitments just in case the old guy comes back around.

Answer 6

She probably likes you but wants her freedom. Guys always say "oh you can go out, I dont care if you have guy friends" then EVERYTHING changes & we end up being controlled, it sucks!

Answer 7

It could be any of these things. It could still be that she wants you on the side for a backup. She might just want to be friends with you or she might be really thoughtless and just not realise that you might need space to heal. A lot of people seem to do that to each other in recent experience.