Have you ever.. (adults only question)

Question

used the back door, if you know what i mean, to spice s*x up? How did you get over insecurities about it? How did you make it comfortable, and more importantly, enjoyable???

Answer 1

ok #1 i dont know if you are a male or female? #2 they make lubes specifically for that--- Pure Romance makes both of my favorites Booty eaze (takes the initial sting out of it) and Whipped (actually makes it comfortable) and they do work. Once you use the right lubes and make the entry "comfortable" it will be enjoyable.

As for getting over insecurities-- get over the idea that you are the only person interested in it--if you take your house and draw a circle around it (both nextdoor, across the street and their next door) you will find at least one couple who either do it on occasion or have tried it.

Answer 2

I'll agree with only one thing that Shecat2u said - it is an opinion.

You might try digital stimulation while engaged in regular coitus - as he's going to town, either you or him uses a finger on your a**s to tickle and thrill.  That should get you started on the road to loosening up (as in lose your insecurities).

Next would be possibly to use a VERY small vibrator during coitus.  That's a way to give you BOTH a thrill - and get you used to having something up there, all while combined with the regular sexual thrills.

Then you can jump all over the advice given regarding lubes above.  Very good advice there!!

Answer 3

NO WAY. Disgusting. Not normal to do that.

Answer 4

In my opinion: Thats an exit not an enter, but to all their own

Answer 5

NO!

Answer 6

like 'shecat2u' said it's an EXIT not an ENTRANCE, so why violate it in that way, thats were waste comes out, and your body wasn't naturally designed for anything to go in there, so in my opinion use the hole that was put there for pleasure (the entrance). Plus you mite rupture your bowel or something, not very safe, plus the easiest way to spread  or catch diseases such as AIDS.

Think of all the toxins in your poo, then ur guys puttin that on his privates, plus could go in you also causing problems, and discomfort, a big price to pay for on average 15 mins of fun really, don't you fink.

Maybe you need educate yourself to think that's normal, married, or not you can't vouch for anyone but yourself 100%, and what's drugs got to do with anything, maybe you need educating anal is one of the easiest ways to spread infections, usually how STI's are spread from, someone who's done it, then they've slept with someone else, they could be a carrier also, so they have no symptoms, but then along comes the innocent victim.

Why do you think when you go to health clinics, if you have had anal, they straight away want to give you an AIDS test???? Think, not just for fun. well it's up to you what you do, but don't ask our opinion, then when we try to give you one, you attack us for trying to help.

But i suppose you would know about drugs, being an addict, wouldn't you, well that's good for you that you both only been with eachother, but incase you didn't know your faeces carries harmful bacteria, which doesn't matter whether you've slept with 1 person or 100, it's got nothing to do with s*x and if you read properly you would have seen I said you can get germs from your poo, not just harmful STD's, so keep up!!!

Also for your information I myself am also married, only been with my husband 7 years strong, but we don't choose to do that, but that's really up to you, also if you do go ahead, i would suggest having colonic done beforehand, so you don't have any horrific  smelly surprises. Just an idea

Answer 7

have i ... yes... insecurities... just decide this is what u want to try and go for it.. make sure ur partner is comfortable with the idea too. has to be both or nothing.  comfort... lots of lube and fingers to stretch when he finally enters or u him with a d***o take it slow, stay calm and breathe... enter and let your body adjust to the feeling then inch in again.. don't shove... lots of kisses or touches to give other sensations,. when comfortable with being entered then u can pump and enjoy...  

Answer 8

Hi while I don't actually have back door s*x.I do have female friends who do.When I had that question  10 yrs ago I was told to make sure it was clean (e***a) and to relax with lots of lube.I still have not tried it myself as I found other ways to spice up my marriage.Role-play and massage also some s*x toys.But just going together to a shop turned us on without buying anything.But good luck I suggest a good bottle of wine and lots of lube.