Have you ever almost died giving birth? have you ever had a stillborn baby?

Question

A birth mother takes that exact risk if they realize it or not every time that they give birth to a baby, they indeed could die! They could die having that baby!

I want to say something to make you think, but it is not something that I actually mean because in most cases I don't think it is true in many situations, even if some situations need extra support or to be changed, what if I told you that God took these babies away from you because you were an unfit parent and nature said! We as a society are doing this everyday to moms now, we are telling parent's (mom's) they are unfit and we are "God" so we have the right to judge if we decide to or think we need to or should take that baby away from them.

I am just asking people to think, to rethink this, to really study it and talk to as many others as they can and not to take all of this lightly, it is not a game. I promise you that everything you do that affects another person's life doesn't just end the moment you say so!

Answer 1

first, I think this is in the wrong category...but anyway

yes, we had a stillborn daughter last yr (at 39 weeks)...would not wish anything that horrific on my most hated enemy.

Answer 2

I had a very severe postpartum hemorrhage the night after the birth I don't know if I almost died but at the time I was sure I would. I was all alone and in the hospital room and as much as I called and rang for help nobody heard me. Next thing I knew there was a whole team of nurses and doctors around me with needles, IV and charts and I couldn't hear them because I had apparently fainted (after you faint there are a few mins of deafness)

Answer 3

Yes I did... It was either they do a c-section or it was either me or him. So I woke up in time and gave the go ahead. He was born purple and it took a minute or 2 to get to start breathing on his own...

Answer 4

I FELT like I was dying during my  two excruciating back labours. I have lost a baby, a stillborn son, born at 20 weeks. He was so tiny, 27cm (1 foot) long. Even at that tiny size he was perfectly developed, except for his brain. He had Dandy-Walker Malformation.

Answer 5

I have had 3 children.....All naturally. I had one complication with my second child..but, everything turned out well. He is now a strong healthy 13 year old. His brother is 16 and his sister is 9. If you want a family you have to be prepared, but positive. Freaking out doesn't help anything.  

I believe a baby when a baby dies it's very sad...has nothing to do with judgment...Just nature.

Answer 6

giving birth is risky weather or not you give up the child or keep it.  It comes to taking responsibility.  If you think that giving children up is so wrong, then why don't you talk to the birth parent about having unprotected s*x?  Seems to me they take responsibility, see that they can take care of the child the way they want to and so they give it up. Oh I guess there is abortion.  Just kill it, and make it all go away, no pain. In fact, why stop there, someone hurts you, just kill them too.  Sorry, I getting a little upset. But I think you are generalizing people a little to much.  Yes, I have a had a still born baby, I have had 9 miscarriages and I have adopted and have a birth child. I am still in contact with the birth mother of my adopted child. I know it was hard for her and I pray for her everyday. But she choice me and she thought it was the best thing. 6 years later, she still is

Answer 7

I'm not quite sure what your question is but, I think you're trying to say that God takes babies away from unfit mothers but means of still born or difficult labor. Also that people play God by taking babies away from their mothers because we see them as unfit... am I right?

If so here's what I think:

That's B***S***!!!

First not all adopted childeren came from "Unfit mothers" Many of them were placed because the mom was young and couldn't prevode and if they had the finances they'd keep the babies... Also if there is a child in danger from their birthmother then that child needs to be protected. I tak it that you've has or know someone who has had a child taken away.

The CPS doesn't take children away because the mom couldn't buy them designer clothes or because she couldn't  cook a 5 course meal or has a mountain of debt. They do it because of neglet, abuse and incarseration.

This isn't playing God it's playing HUMAN!!!

Answer 8

Yes. My son was stillborn in November. I am now 27 weeks pregnant and due on Dec 6th. I have two older boys.

With the delivery of my second son, via c-section the spinal did not work and I endured the surgery with no anesthesia. Afterward the numerous spinal blocks went into effect and it took 6 hours before my lower half had any feeling or movement. It was a day where being paralyzed was a real possibility.

Answer 9

had a stillborn. the baby died at 19 weeks and had to be removed surgically. The worst thing that has ever happend to me.

Answer 10

No and I pray to my great God that is never happens.  I am TTC now.

Answer 11

my wife almost died. they couldn't stop the bleeding after a c-section. they had to do a histerctomy, so now our little one is our little one and only.

Answer 12

My mother in law almost died when she gave birth to my husband. She was bleeding really bad and the doctors were not sure if she would make it. Alhamdullilah she is alive and well.

Answer 13

I don’t even get the point of this thread. Yes woman can die in child birth it’s a well known fact. My sister in law had two very difficult labors.  I don’t see what that [ the possibility of death] even has to do with adoption.

Answer 14

u ugly as h3ll