Have you ever avoided love because you were not ready?

Question

We met almost 2 years ago. After 8 months I left to heal from my divorce. He waited. On a highway 3 months ago, we collided (his car was right beside my car). We pulled over and were both in shock. He was headed south and I was headed east. I have been dating someone else, but he knew this was Divine intervention, I ignored the sign. Now, after my art show, I needed a break and drove to his town. Called him and we met again. Our flow is in cadence. Now, my spirit sees his spirit clearly, yet, I am afraid. Is this just a crossroad or have we come full circle.

Answer 1

Awww...that sounds sweet!

I'm not sure if my spirit can "see"....

Answer 2

Hey if your happy go ahead. It is wonderful feeling to love again.

Answer 3

sounds like The Notebook... interesting. well if you love him/have stronger feelings for him than the guy you are dating, date him. and go watch The Notebook, I think it will help. :)

Answer 4

Yes I have.

I will say you can make it if you both have that goal. Dont be afraid to take the step-life is too short and there are too few who make you feel that special way.

Answer 5

There is a reason for everything that happens I truly believe that I say give the man a chance be open and date and see which man wins or I should say stands out in your heart it is scary but if you feel something like Love for this person that you will be with him i do not believe that a person is not ready you either feel the love for another person or you do not ................the choice is up to you always take it slow and see what happens :))) I wish you the best Good Luck :)))

Answer 6

sounds like u 2 r soul mates!

trust both of urselves nd follow ur heart.

if u like him more than the guy u r goin out with, make up ur own mind nd start dating him..

if u r still hesitating, just keep in touch with him nd u'll figure out how u truely feel about him later sum time!

GOOD LUCK :)  

Answer 7

Your fear is justified, I think.

I think what we do in relationships as adults has to necessarily be different than how it was when we were younger. When I was just starting out I could meet a girl who felt right at the time and just fly with it, reckless of the consequences. Mostly because at that age there really were no severe consequences other than ST D's and pregnancy. Now that I'm older and having been through a rough separation I understand that I cannot go into relationships in that reckless way anymore- the consequences are too severe now! It is not very romantic and probably no one will write a movie about it but as adults I think we should go into serious relationships objectively and with a serious mind. We have the wisdom to be able to discern someone who is truly good for us so we should use it!

I'm not saying look at money or jobs, i'm saying look at personality and compatibility, test the waters and be honest with yourself and your partner. Recall what went wrong in past relationships and try to find these problems before they grow into something.

Passion is temporary, when the fizz leaves the seltzer it tastes awful. Better to take fresh water from the get- go.

Answer 8

Yes I have.  I recently went through a nasty divorce and I'm trying to avoid commitment of any kind right now.  It's hard though when you find someone you care for...and they aren't ready for a commitment either.  As fate works though...things will work out as intended when both are ready.