I'm angry, disgusted, disappointed and all kinds of other things with my boyfriend/"fiance" - We were "engaged" in Feb., started living together in March...and when he was employed he didn't offer much support for the household bills, and now he has been unemployed for about 6-7 weeks now and is hardly giving me any money (from side jobs) and has only bought groceries a couple of times.
He is trying to go into a new career field, and has gotten a book and calls himself "studying" and works odd jobs, but doesn't seem motivated to go look for a job. I've told him time and time again that I can't afford everything by myself and he still isn't helping.
I am just so angry and appalled that I don't know what to do anymore. I stopped wearing my "engagement" ring about 2 months ago (it's in it's box), we hardly ever have s*x (once a month, maybe) and he has started sleeping on the couch. I refuse to support a man, and I have literally diminished all of the feelings I had for him because of all these things. I really wish I could just tell him to get the h**l out, but I haven't. My parents (very hard working people) make comments about him not having a job and hound me about it and it makes me feel bad. I was trying to give him the benefit of doubt, but I've gotten so angry at him that I wish he'd just leave. I don't want to be a b*tch about it, but I'm not the type of girl that "will do anything" for a man. Even when he is home he doesn't do very much to help out around the house.
Have you ever been in this type of situation? I need help. I'm sooo beyond being irritated, I'm at the point where I'd be happy if I came home one day and he was gone (had moved out).
Tags: