Have you ever been around backbreaking mocking and jeering and ridicule, directed at you, have you ever cried?

Question

have you ever been so made fun of and ridiculed and mocked that you cried or felt so low, that people made you feel miserable, backbreaking, as to the extent of it, mental crulety, not from family from neighbors and the people you see everyday, who some of or all of them have more than you,

Answer 1

Wow! They might think they have more than you materially...but mentally and emotionally they are EMPTY if they have to stoop to that level and behave that way.

I'm sorry if that's something you are dealing with...it is unacceptable behaviour.

But let it make you, not break you....let it refine your personality and make you a better person than every single one of them.

One thing people cannot take away from you is your dignity and healthy pride...always remember you are worth more than that kind of treatment....keep your head up and smile...something interesting I recently read is this quote:

"You anger is someone else's control."

Don't let them control your emotions because they want retaliation...let them play alone.

Answer 2

lol sorry but the way you put your question "feel miserable, backbreaking, as to the extent of it, mental cruelty"  like dame!

Yeah this happened to me once this neighbour used to always shout racist slurs at me and the final straw was when he kicked a football at my newborns buggy, and i just snapped. It took 3 friends to hold me back. But these days i just brush it off and not let it affect me unless they get physical with it, then we have a problem.

Answer 3

Have I?

Yes, but not since childhood.

In adulthood?

No, but have been to the brink and wanted to (and might have had I not known this would only have fed the initiators).

Such behaviour is almost exclusively the preserve of the mega-insecure who seek to increase their own self-worth by belittling others. These bullies, controllers and/or abusers are only able to be effective if their authority to do so is acknowledged. No-one can put you down without your permission.

ANY authority (including society, law, parents, employers, friends) ONLY has effect if you acknowledge its validity.

This may be one of life's hardest -- and most valuable -- learned lessons.

If met with character, reasonability, stoicism and diplomacy the effect on you and the regard of observant others WILL have positive dividends.

At the time -- in "the moment" -- it IS hard to accept this however.

Answer 4

Things used to be like that everyday for me. But after a point you start to learn to brush it off. Now when people say stuff to me it doesn't even bother me. So I just smile at them and keep moving, because I am a better person tthan they are. You can never let other people make you feel bad about yourself just because they hate themselves.