Have you ever been betrayed badly?

Question

I mean a situation where your like "what the h**l happen? Did I really deserve that? Not even a chance."

No ones perfect in any way possible, but man. I see the way people are sometimes and how marriages and things of sort get dumped and treated, and I'm left shaking my head in amazement.

So have you ever been or know someone who just got the good old fashion "s***w job?"

Thanks!

Answer 1

Major betrayal by there different men: ex husband, ex pastor, and ex best friend..criminal activities on their part..

Answer 2

I had a son with my girlfriend of many years.  We were a little rocky nine months prior to the birth of the baby.  So I wondered if anything was going on.  She had s*x only one time with me during that time period.  Strange thing is she told me to bust in her, when she usual never would want me to bust in her, since we were young and did not want any kids yet.  Gullible me did not think much of it, but thought it was kind of wierd.  Fast forward to today, we broke up a few months ago and I heard from a family friend who told me some things that she said to her one drunken night.  A DNA test later and come to find the child a called son has maybe 3 alleles in common with me.  I even asked her the day that I knew the results, "Is there any possible way that I am not the Dad".  She retorted, "I won't even dignify that with a comment".  I full well knew the results.  I hope that this is the best thing for me even though it feels terrible now.  I feel old and that all the good women are taken and that I will never meet anyone again.

I think things will begin to look up for me and hopefully will find someone that won't do any betrayals on that level.  Good luck to all that have been betrayed, and I hope that we are not bitter and resentful from it.

Answer 3

yeah was me....Happy Marriage or so i thought, i go to work one day and when i come home, my husband is waiting for me to tell me he has moved all his stuff out of the house and that he wants a divorce.  I was like ummmm what???  Will not talk to me about it, will not give me a real reason, accused me of cheating on him when all i ever did was go to work and come home and was always home before him don't know how i found the time to cheat, will not try and work anything out, just left!!  I was in a bit of a depression before all this happened and kinda kept to myself but i was happy in my relationship for the most part.  He broke my heart in a million pieces and left me to try and survive not just without his love and him being there but also financially.  I thought it was for better or worse but evidently not.

Answer 4

I divorced my wife of 20 years because she was cheating on me. I got stuck with the credit card bills and other debt. She ruined me financially.

That was the second time she got caught cheating. I was a fool for believing she would change. For those that say they can change, haven't been with one. They don't.

Answer 5

Yeah.  We weren't married but we were in a serious relationship.  He was friends with his ex-girlfriend.  She befriended me but the whole time she wanted him back & I didn't really get it.  She asked me to fill in at her job for her on weekends.  I said yes just for some extra cash.  Turns out she planned it that way so she could have s*x with my boyfriend while I was covering her shift at work.  Both of them knew exactly where I was so there was no threat of me coming home to find them.  I really thought she wanted to be friends with me.  I was THAT stupid.  Then I found a gift she gave him.  Little soaps.  They were called something like Dirty Boy & Naughty Girl soaps.  I realized at that point that I had been a fool.

Answer 6

Hey.

I'm 16 and never been married before. And I can still answer your question. But first of all. Let me just say I applaud your thinking. You seem to have a really good head on your shoulders. And that is rare, especially in men.

Anyway. That being said. I feel like as a woman (a young one at that) I've been betrayed by much of the male population (not all but most that I've met) It seems like me as a person no longer matters when I've got a "rockin' bod" (or so I've been told) Guys just seem to always want s*x and although some girls don't mind, I've been asked too many times on the SECOND DATE if i would like to have s*x. I'm 16 that is not supposed to happen is completely unacceptable.

I know it sounds odd to say something like that. I could understand if only 5 guys asked, but i've been asked by 20 out of 25 guys! Some whom I've only talked to for five minutes.

So thats my type of betrayal. I feel like my respect has been betrayed.

Leelah

Answer 7

I've been divorced before, from my wife cheating. But nothing can compare to being betrayed by your own mother. She chose money over me. That is unforgivable!!!!

Answer 8

i got screwed in my divorce. we agreed on everything. he was to take the credit card bills because he was the charger and he made twice as much.  However, guess that got old after two months, decided to declare bankruptcy, told me i had no choice.  Then i got stuck with the one bill that contested.  That bill was charges he made when he moved out to "set himself up" .microwave, tv stereo that kind of stuff.  All the credit was in my name so i had to pay it.

That's probably the one thing i will still after 8 years get angry about.

It was financial rape, thats how it felt. He was right, i had no choice

Answer 9

Got married barely 1 year ago, I am now finding out little games my husband is playing... not coming home all night, lying about where he has been, disrespecting me, etc.  

Now he is threatening me and yelling at me for it, its unbelievable.  To top it off he is texting me some really insane stuff, calling himself a diplomat and telling me to be ready for court with him... very insane and a lil' scary... to think i knew this person, now I am scared to find out what I haven't known the whole time.  

Answer 10

My fiance made me think he loved me more than life itself because of the way he treated me, and of course, I loved him just as much if not more.  But, once he met one of my -good looking- best friend, he started saying and doing things that were just totally out of character at first. Like, he would see a movie star on TV and he'd say:"Doesn't she look just like ____(My best friend)"?  And he would always insist we invite her over to our house, even when we had planned on doing something intimate just for the two of us. Once he found out she broke up with her BF, he right away started attacking me saying I was a bad friend not to have her over all the time, because she should be staying with us now that she was heart-broken and lonely...Finally, one day at a big party, he told her we were having problems because I was jealous of her. He was just "testing the waters" to see what her response would be, to find out if he had any chance of hooking up with her.  She was a good, loyal friend, so she ignored him and left the party not saying anything to me (she didn't want to break my heart). As soon as we got home, the idiot confessed everything and argued that he was just making conversation and didn't mean anything by it. I'm not stupid, so I didn't believe him. He just thought my friend would tell me and he intended to beat her to it so he could give me his version. He broke my heart and changed me into a different person.  

Answer 11

Yes, he beat me, was on drugs, cheated endlessly, put his friends first, partied all the time while I worked 60+ hour weeks, nothing but great to him, did everything I could to get us together, and he tells me HE is unhappy and leaves me for a Ho that worked at Lowes.  Does make ya 'Uh?????'