Have you ever been jelous of a family member?

Question

i am. she has everything i want and need. =(

Answer 1

At least you are aware of how you feel - it is much worse when it is subconscious jealousy, which will grow into hate.

You need to look at the good things that you have - and focus on how to achieve your own dreams.  It is unfair to compare - some people will always be more lucky.

Answer 2

my sister...cuz shes so awesome!  im not any more though...shes sorta like a role model to me now =)

Answer 3

no i dont need to be jealous of any1

Answer 4

My brother is jealous of me, I have no idea why.  We had equal lives and he actually had much more success than I did when we were in school.  His jealousy and competition now, as adults, had ruined our relationship as he's no longer my big brother, he's some angry, weird guy who steals from me and tries to sabotage my life.  I miss my brother more than I can tell you and would give him everything I have  if he would just be my brother again.

Don't do this to your family.  Get a handle on it now, early, so that you and your sister can be friends for a long, long time.

Answer 5

yes i used to be Jelous of my younger brother who went to night school and become a computer programmer and was earning triple my wage at the height of my earning capability he is 23 yrs my Junior

I now feel sorry for him

He has 4 marriage failures lost his business is on the dole and is a drunk and i used to be jelous ?????    

Answer 6

every boby is different in their own way, &so r u, & secretly sha may b jealious of u.

Answer 7

Yup...try not to fester on those fealings...ask yourself, "why does she have XXXXXX"  What can I do to have it too...was it hard work, was it asking the right person, does she have an actual need for it and it is not an essential item for you but rather a want, does she have a job and pay for things?

Answer 8

Don't be jealous of your sister. That is not right. You are just will have bad luck. You don't want to. I am telling you. Nothing comes good out of that. Jealousy will ruining your life. At the end, your sister will at the end. You just need to be the best you can be. Be good for your life and future. Life is only once. Don't let Jealousy ruin it for you. This is a test of your strength and your blessings will come later.