Have you ever been the"other women" and you were the one who got dumped?

Question

My sister was the other women for 2 months.We kept on telling her to leave the married man alone but she never listen.Now he is ignoring her and she is devastated.

Answer 1

As devastated as she is, she needs to understand that he is married to his wife and he made the right decision to go back to his wife.

I can't imagine how bad she feels but realistically, she knew that he is married. Hopefully she didn't think he would leave his wife for her.

Your sister has had a real awakening and I am sorry to hear that she was hit with such an unfortunate situation.

Answer 2

wow what did she expect??

any person who will cheat with you, will cheat on you, or duh, not want you anymore.

your sister is a ***** for ruinging someones marriage.  

Answer 3

Help your sister understand that anyone who loves her will not accept to be in another relationship (especially marriage) while being with her. The promises are endless: "I will leave her, I am getting divorced, I cannot divorce her right now because of the kids, I do not want to hurt her, I need more time, " And the excuses go on and on and on. It's going to hurt her terribly and it will take time. However, she needs to take some time to rebuild her self esteem and convince herself that she deserves better.

I really do not want to judge her, but the other women always get hurt. And even if this person did try to leave whoever they were with for you, they will do the same thing to you.