Have you ever been with a group of friends and realized you are totally different and didnt fit in with them?

Question

Im in this situation and i really hate it. I want to leave them when school starts next Monday,but i dont have anyone else. Theyre all skaterish and im more girly. Theyre also disrespectful and not true friends at all.

Howd you leave them?

Answer 1

You just asked this!?!?!?!?!?!!?

Answer 2

Just ease your way out and start talking to other people. then either invite your new friends to hang out on weekends instead of the old ones or invite yourself to hang out with the new ones and eventually just phase them out... they might get mad but the one thing i have learned is you have very few friends in life and those friends become family.. everyone else are just acquaintance's.. dont dwell too much on this. family is the most important thing not friends.

Answer 3

Hey!

I have been in this situation before, my freshie year in hs. Making new friends is hard, but finding those you fit in with is even harder.

[The story behind these friends is that, in the beginning, there was this group of kids who knew eachother so they stayed as a group. Then, one girl started hanging out with boys. One of the girls in the group said how it wasn't cool how she just dumped them for guys. Then, there was this other girl who came into her life during her quince. They became best friends. Until these other girls thought she always gave atitude and didn't like her as much. Soon, that girl who had the quince began to leave, taking with her, two other chicks. And finally, you have the me, and these two other whatever chicks. Two more other "wierdo in an awesome way" came to sit with us [whom we already knew]. And remember that girl who was BFs with the quince girl? well, she just went along with them, until this year, she found another group of girls, a ditsyier but closer group of friends. [Boy, have I noticed so many changes happening here...]

I used to have friends that I felt I didn't fit in with. I started feeling worse and worse as the year was getting thru with. I sucked it up, and started hanging out with others who didn't treat me the way they did. [I'm not sure what they thought or if they even noticed I was gone, but we were all friends. These friend groups just split up sometimes, and unite again.] And this year, I was able to just hang out with the people who treated me right. I still say hi to them, every now and then.

This may take a while, but it might be a lot easier if you are the type of person who can just talk to anyone. If you may be having trouble, look in the unlikeliest of places. Just remember NOT to lose yourself.

But as you get to know people better, and understanding yourself, you can find where you fit in.

Good Luck! =)

Answer 4

hey that' s how i am, i have my friends, but i'm not really friends with them..? this year i have only 1 or so classes with them, so i figure we can just drift apart naturally.

every year we go to school with a clean slate, i'm sure you'll be able to meet new people, good luck :]

Answer 5

I'm real sorry about that. First, you should make new friends.  Go to each of your new classes and try to look for people that are like you.  Say "hi" and all that other stuff and I'm sure you'll find at least a few.

Then, you can walk away from your skater friends.  I know it sounds mean, and it can be hard because it's a group.  Honestly though, just walk away.    

Answer 6

make new friends as you loose each one,one by one! it works but it doesnt happen fast so be redy to commit.