Have you ever been worried someone would think you are g*y..?

Question

... just by looking at you? I never really worry about it too much (a lot of people know, but not just everyone), but sometimes I wonder if other people are wondering about me. For example: yesterday I overheard this straight girl I know remark on how "petite" I am. Well, does that mean she thinks I'm g*y or just that she's jealous because I'm skinny and she's a chunk?

She's constantly coming on to me and telling me it's my fault she likes me for my "being so pretty". WTF!? Wouldn't that make her a L*****n in a way? Ugh! I don't want that d**n thing in my face. If I did then I'd have a Chia Pet Chicken Pot Pie in my kitchen!

Thank you for listening.

Answer 1

Err, I'm slightly confused by the last paragraph with referencing to Chia Pets and pot pies, but I'll attempt to answer any way.

Yes, I have often wondered if people can tell I'm g*y just by looking at me. Before I began to accept myself, I was very self-conscious about the way I looked. I knew how I felt on the inside, and somehow I thought that people must have been able to see everything I tried to hide. Now, I don't really care anymore. If they wonder, they wonder...good for them. I am who I am.  

Answer 2

oh it was a constant thing when I was closeted. I would overcompensate by talking about how much i hated g**s or something to make people think otherwise. i wished I knew what I did now, about how ridiculous it was and how ridiculous it made me sound

Answer 3

In certain situations I have worried about it.  

Answer 4

some of my friends think im g*y [and their right =D]

Answer 5

No

Answer 6

yup /=

Answer 7

I really don't care, but if i had to worry I'd be worried guys think I'm straight

BTW, you need to CALM down. You sound SO paranoid. When a girl calls you petite she just means your tiny/thin. She could possibly be jealous that you're thin and she is not. And she just complimented you, granted it's not the manliest of compliments but you could just be a pretty boy [delicate features, like a puppy dog, cute.. it doesn't make you a girl and her a L*****n idk how you got to that scenario]

Answer 8

I have exactly the opposite problem for some reason. I want people to think I'm g*y, because I am g*y and I want people to see me for what I am. I assume that people think I'm g*y and conduct my business as if people already know, but whenever sexuality comes up in conversation I am always told that noone ever suspected me. I have had jobs where I tell people that I am g*y and my coworkers don't believe me (one girl even sent in a "spy" to flirt with me so I would reveal myself). So go figure.

Answer 9

Yes, when I was in the closet, I worried all the time. Now I could care less.

~Kisses~

Answer 10

Ok, well first of all I'm a L*****n, but let's look at the facts ...

Your profile:

"am interested in horticulture/plants/la... cute guys, ghosts, particle physics, flavourdynamics, music, reading, photography, cute guys, mystery stories, Godzilla movies, Cheetos and did I say cute guys?"

Your previous question was about liking the Powerpuff Girls ... dude, everyone knows you're g*y when you like particle phyics and Powerpuff Girls!

Answer 11

LOL!!!!

Well be flatter if people like you. And is not that they think you are g*y... They just are mad cause they cant have you! LOL!!!! ;D

Answer 12

I wish I looked more g*y. I also wish I knew what a chia pet chicken pot pie was.

Answer 13

nah i look g*y, and thats ok with me

i really couldnt care less if people in public think/know im g*y, as long as they dont come up to me and give me ****

so im pretty much "out" if someone asked me i would tell them the truth..only my family doesnt know

Answer 14

uh...yeah, i don't like it when i feel people are starting to doubt, most of the time i fly below the radar, but people wonder about why i know the lyricsto songs a guy shouldnt know haha

you're caddy like a girl

"shes a chunk" and calling her a chicken pot pie...if you're this sassy in person then she has a good reason to think you're g*y. also by the way you post questions you sound g*y

i dunno what she ws trying to say when she said you were petite and pretty...do you look like a girl? she sounds annoying, she might want you

Answer 15

I don't worry because I'm not very feminine so I fit in.

Answer 16

Nope, I don't worry about someone thinking I'm g*y...I'm not open about my sexuality as much..alot of people think I'm straight if they look at me. I wonder about it too at times, and I'm sure I've dropped hints, but eh it doesn't bother me.

Answer 17

yea i do all the time

Answer 18

Lol. Ya i wonder sometimes but i think for me its being paranoid because when i told my friends they nearly fell off their chairs in disbelief but they were cool about it. I guess i just don't come off as g*y and that leads to similar problems at university with girls who like me lol :-)

Answer 19

yes.. I am not in the closet with mom but with people from school yes..

Answer 20

yes, especially when i was in high school.