Have you ever changed how you thought about a friend based on their actions?

Question

a guy that i know totally dogged a girl that really had feelings for him. this same guy is always getting dissed by women who only really dealt with him for his money, and as much as these skeezers use him to pay their bills the one woman that loved him, warts and all, he threw her to the side. as a woman that's been dogged by a guy in a similar manner, its hard for me to respect this friend knowing that he didn't even care about her feelings. i can't even look this guy in the eye now.

have you ever witnessed a really messed up behavior from a friend of yours, and based on that action don't know if you want to continue the friendship?

Answer 1

Not in a close personal way, but I can see that it would affect my friendship with someone who acts that way. I can't tolerate disrespect for a female.  

Answer 2

I guess I would talk to this friend and ask his side of it, before I made any decision regarding this.  There are always two sides to a story, and you may not be hearing his side.  Don't jump to conclusions.