Have you ever cheated?

Question

Have you ever cheated on a partner, if so why did you do it and did you regret it?

Answer 1

No, I have been cheated on though. I would never cheat because when I am dating someone I give them my total respect, I hate when the partner doesnt give it back, but it seems like men dont respect women as much.

Answer 2

Yes, not physically but emotionally I have,which in my eyes is worse because ok cheating sexually is bad but emotionally your giving all of you.I did it because there is no love and affection at all in my marriage,I have regrets only because I don't want to hurt my partner.

Answer 3

yes. boy was it a big mistake.

i will never do that again. its honestly not true when they say once a cheater always a cheater. i never did it again since then. thankfully the guy knows it was a mistake and im really not like that. that it was a stupid move that i didnt think through. we are actually friends till this day.

oh i forgot to answer the rest, i did because i wasnt thinking and i had feelings for the guy i did it with. i have a history with that guy, and well it happened. i regret it because i hurt someone i care about.

Answer 4

No.

Answer 5

I will admit I cheated three times in my life. The first time, I got carried away in the moment and felt like it would be worse to stop what I was doing.  I felt absolutely horrible about it and confessed the next time I saw my boyfriend.

The second time, I made the conscious choice to cheat on my boyfriend.  I didn't really regret it but felt guilty anyway and confessed to it.

The third time I only count as a technicality because the man I was dating at the time considered it cheating.  But his rules were one-sided.  We didn't have a committed relationship.  Yet he thought it was perfectly fine for him to sleep with other women, but I had to remain completely faithful.  I was 20 when this last time occurred.

And don't be thinking that once a cheater, always a cheater applies to every single person.  That's simply not the case.  I am now 33 and I haven't cheated since, nor do I have the desire to.  I've grown and developed a stronger sense of self.  I have a much more mature view of relationships.  If I felt the desire to be with someone other than my current partner, I would now talk to my partner about the feelings.  Whether that would lead to figuring out what's missing in my relationship with my partner, or if I'd leave my partner for another person, or perhaps develop a polyamorous relationship, I would be completely honest and everything that would happen in the current relationship would be with full knowledge and consent.  There's no need for cheating if you choose to be honest.

Answer 6

Never, and never even thought about doing it.

Answer 7

I almost wanted to cheat to show my boyfriend that, two can play that games, but I became wiser and smarter and just felt like it will not make matter better.

Answer 8

mm.. close.. but nahh

I just like the thrill of knowing u have a bf and flirting on someone else but no ive never cheated =]

lol :))

Answer 9

Yes.

I was young. Retarded. Horny. Selfish. I stopped caring about anyone/anything but myself.

When you cheat you are the most hateful person in the whole world. You allow a moment's physical pleasure to ruin anything meaningful you might have had with your current love or even the person you are cheating with because any relationship you strike up with them will be founded on c**p.

I was 14 when I started seeing my first boyfriend and I moved away 7 months after we started dating. We continued the long distance thing until I was 16. To be honest with myself I guess I just wanted out of the whole thing but didn't know how to be mature or safe about it. So, I just let myself give into any d**n temptation that crossed my path.

I regret every crappy second of having s*x with that guy. I can only assume I was one of those people who had to "try" it to realize how much it f's everything up. Hopefully you are the type that can learn from other people's mistakes.

Honesty is the best way to go. Start by being honest to yourself.

Answer 10

no, I haven't cheated on anybody,...

Answer 11

absolutely not. if you're in a relationship, you should want to be in it. if you don't want to be in it, and are tempted to cheat, you should tell your partner. it's not fair!

Answer 12

no i have not even though i have had many chances and it is very tempting