Have you ever cried just feeling like you are all alone and no one to talk to about your feelings?

Question

what do you normally do at those times? and when do u say somebody is 'mature'? when he is over 18?

thx!

Answer 1

Yes i do it occasionaly.i just try to surround myself by the things or people that bring me up & make me happy. i also have a therapist he helps me so much. and everyone matures and a different time.

Answer 2

I try and remind myself that I'm never alone and there is always Spirit to connect with. I understand how that isn't always comforting, however, and you want something more concrete. I try to write out my emotion because that's what helps me. Even though what I write may be extremely dark and nihilistic, it helps me feel better afterwords.

I don't think there is any real benchmark for "mature". It's one of those variable aspects that's hard to define. I feel that someone can be considered mature when; they can admit to their own mistakes and wrongdoings openly, they can remain stable and secure, and they are capable of calm reasoning in tough situations.

Answer 3

No. Never needed much of external input in regards to my emotional state. Mature? Legally yes over 18. Intellectually or emotionally is when they are self-sufficient in those areas, which can come at any age.

Answer 4

I have. He can still be mature. Everyone has their moments.

Answer 5

thats one of those rare occasions in life when you know somethings real. its the most unearthing brutal perfect ting in the world when you can be outside yourself and cry with a want but not a need for somone else. 18 is a govt number forget that. you know when you've grown up. i do it bit by bit good luck love, don't fel alone

Answer 6

I cry continuously inside...I just don't try to express it openly, but I do cry all the time...

Answer 7

Yea, I've felt alone and cried about it.  Usually after I cry I feel better though, sometimes you just need to let it out.

As for saying when somebody is "mature" I think it has nothing to do with age really but more of personality in my experience.

Answer 8

I've cried,But for another reason.  I've cried because I have this fear of dying before I will be able to find true love.  It's just so painful for me to feel this way.  What do I do at this time?  I find love and understanding knowing that people out there love me.  And many of people find me sweet and sincere.  I'd almost consider myself to be a gentleman if only I didn't feel so modest about it.  Somebody can be mature and be under 18.  Some women or men just think that there is an age limit to actually be mature.  Age has nothing to do with it.  It's more about how you conduct yourself and whether you are sincere when you need to be.  If this has anything to do with s*x,There is a good reason why someone might not want to take that risk.  When it comes to having a relationship,You must be able to be patient when it comes to intimacy.  You might be ready but your partner might not.  You must accept this and understand.  Once the two of you are ready,The both of you will feel so glad that you waited.  I hope this answer has pleased you.  If not,I am terribly sorry bout that.  I must get going now.  This has been David and it's been an honor writing to you.  Take care and have a great day now.  Bye.

Answer 9

yes, i did.

and you're not necessarily mature at 18...i know people over 40 who are not mature...i think you re mature when you become a responsible person and that can happen at any age

Answer 10

i always say there is nothing wrong with crying no matter what s*x you are or age.It is a horrible feeling being alone but you are not alone we are all here to try and cheer you up.

Answer 11

If you're all alone, and there's no one in the room with you, it's not a feeling.  It's reality.  At those times, I sometimes make a decision: to talk to someone or not.

If I choose to be alone, I do not post to internet message boards asking why I'm by myself.  I start remembering the imaginary friend I had as a child, and I find the one who has always been right next to me.

Answer 12

Too often.  I would say we all mature at different times, maturity does not come with a birthday.  I don't think I matured until my 40's?

Answer 13

nope not really but if you do go online and chat with someone new it might be risky but.....       or try 2 catch up with your old school m8s. or simply fone some1 knew or go out and have fun.

Answer 14

what I usually like to do when I'm feeling in the dump, is... I often will find myself taking a nice drive, down a road I've never been on, blasting some music I can relate too at the time and just zoning out. Also I enjoy movies the most during these times... find a nice movie that makes me feel good....

Answer 15

no

i cry because no one understand me when i say ,

they listen and dont understand whats teh point!