Have you ever dated someone that you didn't felt any excitement for?

Question

Have you ever dated someone that you didn't have any chemistry with?

Did you stick around to see if your feelings will change?

I was seeing a guy that i didn't felt any excitement for and butterflies.I wasn't looking forward to spent time with.He was boring and clingy.So i decide to break it off.

He kept on being persistence and i decided to give him another chance to see if things will change.I now regret my decision of taking him back.I still don't get the butterflies and excitement.

I am dumping him tonight and this time is for good

Answer 1

Boring and clingy?   -- YUCK!  Dump this one, pronto!

Answer 2

yeah, i agree after 2 tries. go on with your life.  

Answer 3

Yes this has happend and it's not fair to keep seeing him. You did the right thing by breaking it off but you never should have gotten back with him. Make sure this time you stick to your decision so you are not stringing him along. Good luck!

~MLF~

Answer 4

You know, I did that once, because he was just such a sweet guy- I didn't have the heart to tell him "no" when he initially asked me out, but ultimately it is a bad idea to continue dating someone you don't have feelings for, because not only is it leading them on and making them believe that you could be The One for them, but it also isn't fair to you because it's keeping you off the market where you might accidentally miss out on meeting the person who really is right for you.  I'm glad you've chosen to end it.  I am lucky to have found someone whom I am very compatible with and insanely attracted to, and I'm very excited for us to share our lives together, but if I hadn't found him, I would have preferred to be single forever rather than in a relationship lacking in attraction and love.

Answer 5

It happens to everyone. You won't like or have feelings for each guy you date. So don't worry about it. You did give him a second chance.

Answer 6

Pointless to carry on wasting your time.  There has to be some sort of chemistry.

Answer 7

For sure, and I think most women have. You give it a good chance, and if nothing develops, it just isn't there.

You really need that spark and chemistry to sustain a longlasting relationship! And it's not all about the s*x, it's about the mystery, the intrigue, the anticipation, the excitement! Some of us still feel that way after many years of marriage!

Answer 8

Yes, this happened to me.  The guy was so fun as a friend, I thought I'd give it a shot when he asked me out.  Well, it just didn't work, and unfortunately I had to break it off, which ultimately ended the friendship too.