Have you ever dated someone that you didn't have any chemistry with?

Question

Did you stick around to see if your feelings will change?

I was seeing a guy that i didn't felt any excitement for and butterflies.I wasn't looking forward to spent time with.He was boring and clingy.So i decide to break it off.

He kept on being persistence and i decided to give him another chance to see if things will change.I now regret my decision of taking him back.I still don't get the butterflies and excitement.

I am dumping him tonight and this time is for good.

Answer 1

Sure, just for the s*x. I can't even remember her name!

Answer 2

Yes ...many ,many times .... Seems I'm pickey... I found my PRINCE but I guess he wanted to be a frog .  He hopped right along and never looked back so here  I sit on my LILLY PAD... listening to all the mating bulls and wonder where my prince went.  Have you ever noticed the mating frogs say all the right things but they ALL sound the same ! Guess I'll just smell the flowers and smile pretty for the horney little toads and stay right here on my pad . While basking in the sun, there is something to say for the froggy who waits ....  

Answer 3

The problem is the enabling him to try and see, if he really fits you and you thought you missed it. I dated someone who was a neighborhood friend awhile back before marriage, and it was just going through the motions of being polite trying to have fun. Mistake in venturing back to yesteryear. Sometimes your first instincts are totally right on, and you are trying to give people a chance to mix with your chemistry. It fails as you just found out. It takes time for some guys to show personality and spark. I think the voltage has been grounded in his case, and that might mean he didn't move enough in the maturer development stage. His personality needs a jump-start, and that might take a lot of time and work. His next phase will have to find the right girl for him, or change. Glad you are able to survive this disaster. The right guy is somewhere up the road. Butterflies referring to excitement happen when the guy is into you as much as you are into him. That's the match you are mentioning here. I hope it happens soon for you.......

Answer 4

I've done that before, and I sure regretted it. I felt really bad for the guys. You should tell him straight up before you went out with him, that you're willing to "try it out" with him. If he says okay, then when you break it off, he'll understand.

Answer 5

If you are free I'm available:)

Yes, I dated a girl and we had no chemistry. The s*x was it and it was over.

Answer 6

Well I guess you could call it non chemistry... Many many years ago I causally dated a guy... We could talk about many different things and we made each other laugh... I was not looking to get married to him and I certainly wasn't looking to be intimate with him... I think he would have liked us to be intimate but that type of feeling just wasn't there... We stayed friends for a long time, emailing, talking on the phone and sometimes having a meal together but that was about it... We finally just moved on to other things and other people....

Answer 7

Yes.  This guy was pretty cool to hang around but an awful kisser.  If the chemistry isn't there, it just isn't there.

Answer 8

Yes, i was in a relationship with a guy just like that but then it came to a point that I just couldn't stand to be around him.  He drove me nuts!  he brought out the worst in me.  He was a very nice guy but just not for me, no attraction what so ever on my part and not good in bed either.  I realized that I was with him to just be with someone and thought i couldn't make it on my own or didn't want to by myself.  I decided right then and there that if I was ment to be alone, then thats the way it was gonna be, I could do it by myself and there was nothing wrong with me for being single.  i decided that if i couldnt find the guy I was looking for that I was fine with that and wouldnt settle for less, then out of the blue a few months later i met my husband I have now!

Answer 9

You know what they say... you gotta kiss a lot of frogs to find the prince! Good luck.

Answer 10

Dated? No.

Answer 11

I once dated an older man briefly. I thought he was cute, he thought I was cute so we went on a date. That was about it, we hardly talked, he was way too shy, it was so boring. Somehow he felt different, and since he was my friends' brother he assumed I would end up his girlfriend. I couldn't continue it since I had no feelings for him whatsoever. No butterflies, no nothing so what is the point? Would just be a waste of time.

Answer 12

Yes. I have dated someone whom I had no chemistry with. I tried to break it off and he made me feel bad. So instead I treated him badly and was never available and eventually he left me. I know it was wrong, but I tried to tell him how I felt and he said he'd try harder. Some people just don't click...It happens. Looking back, I wish I'd just been strong enough to walk away instead of prolonging the hurt for him, so my advice to anyone in this situation is to be honest and end it as soon as possible if you aren't interested in a future with that person.

Answer 13

I don't know why you would go out with someone you didn't have ANY chemistry with.  Seeks like a waste of time.  

Bad decision to give him another chance - good decision to end this charade tonight.

Good Luck!