Have you ever dated someone that you didn'tfelat any spark with?

Question

Did you stuck around to see if your feelings will change?

Did your feelings changed?

I met this guy and I went out on 2 dates with him. I thought he was very boring and clingy. Then I decide to tell hi that it wasn't going to work out. He was upset and he kept on being persistence’s decided to give him another chance since I only went out with him twice. He might have been nervous.

Anyways, we are talking again and invited him to my place. I told him that I just want to take it slow and see were things going. He was all over me and we almost had s*x but we couldn't because it was time of the month. He kept on telling me how much he likes me and how beautiful I look. It was kind of annoying. We were watching TV and he was always glancing at me smiling.

I don't feel the same way yet and I just want to get to know him to see if my feelings will change.

Do you think they will change?

Answer 1

oh my....well...i've had this same pb. the most difficult part is determining exactly how u feel about him now.

when it happened to me, i decided to stick around. the guy was older than me and quite popular.[he also had a cool car and could get me into the hottest parties but shhh...] anyways, he had an ok personality but i wasn't that crazy about the looks.

we hung out for some months but, even though he was showering me with attention and i was the envy of most of my friends[the ones who had never seen him] i just couldn't do it anymore.

for instance, i found that having s*x was an ordeal since i had no desire for him. i would just make up lots of excuses not to do it.

but it seems that ur ok with the s*x part since u say u were close to doing it. but believe me, u don't want to get involved with a guy u don't like. no one's sayin u should love ur bf from day one, but u should at least like him phisically and find him interesting conversation wise.

do feelings change? oh yes, they definetly do.

all the things u think ur ok with...u end up hating them. if ur like..."ok, i can live with him smoochin an peckin me and drooling all over me when i'm focusing on more imp stuff" then, trust me, it will grow only more annoying untill u can't stand it at all.

i think it's best to tell him u want to be just friends because u have other priorities for the time, and a romantic rel isn't one of them.

if he doesn't understand that u need time, then DON'T waste YOUR time!

Best Regards

Answer 2

Hi:

I can understand everything.... Look I think you are bored because YOU KNOW that he likes you... you don't have to work about it.. YOU KNOW, so it's not a surprise....

You don't have to buy anything special, or fix your clothes or change your style or the shape or your hair... HE LIKES YOU!

For the other hand...... maybe you and him don't have the same interested, the same issue, or the same hobby.... so when a person talks about apples the other person has to know about apples but if he talks about apples and you about oranges... (like an example) you and him don't have the same frequency.....

I am wondering how many girls can be flattered to know that the coplue next to you LOVES YOU, LIKES YOU:. how many can pay for that..... ME INCLUDED!

With this I don't want to tell you ACCEPT HIM NO MATTER WHAT!

ONLY BE AWARE THAT HE IS A GREAT HUMAN BEING.... that you are lucky that he is not a criminal or a cheater.. or drunk... or many other things....... that you can value on him....

AFTER  value him , comparing this with many other couples.....

you can be reflexive and decide if you don't like him....  JUST TELL HIM THE TRUTH AND LET HIM GO IN PEACE....

Be polite and express clearly your thinking.......

GOOD LUCK!

Answer 3

yes and my feelings didnt change after that i broke up with him 2 days later haha