Have you ever dealt with this/been through this?..ADvice please!?

Question

Have you had to move away from someone you care about-b/c of a job, school and so on ?..What happened?

Did you try Lond Distance

What was the aftermath?...

What's your story?..

I'm going to school out of state in a month.

The guy I'm dating..

he's been through this road.

He had a hard time after the relationship ended ..

he doesn't think LD are "relationships"

he stated seeing a person 4 times out of the year isn't

a relationship in his eyes

He stated he really likes me.

He loves being with me

He said he'd dump a future GF if I were to go back into his life

We're going to stay in touch but it'll be on respectable terms.

It's been so hard on me.

I don't date very much. It's so hard for me to meet or like someone.

I'm still leaving, he told me to go and not let him stop me.

He said he'll find someone and I will too, he's hurt..

but he said "that's life" and he won't forget me

**I know it's not for everyone,I didn't expect him to t

Answer 1

I just finished the L.D. part of a relationship. We started dating and a lot of friends told me that the LD relationship would fall apart. I was 300 miles away and saw here 2 times in 3 months. We talked nightly. I just got home and our relationship is better than before b/c now communication is so much stronger. I would say try to talk him into trying it for a few months and as long as you both are committed to this relationship everything would work out fine.

Answer 2

Long distance never worked out for me.  Too many things came  in between.  Lost contact and have never been able to find them again.  I have always wondered what happened to them.  I know they are out there.  At this point it is better to let sleeping dogs lie.  Found another from the past and married her instead.  Now 34 years later I have not regretted it.

Answer 3

I think that you have to look at the road that is ahead of you and not behind you.  If you and your BF were meant to be things will return back to you.

I met my husband while we were both in college in the States.  I then returned to Europe for a number of years, and we completely lost touch...  Anyway, five years after I moved, he called me.  We dated LD for a while.  And now we are married and have two amazing kids.

So you never know.

Answer 4

The 1st time I did the whole L.D thing I moved 400miles away & it was my senior year. So everything was just so crappy. I visited the guy whenever I could. Talked to him on the phone. He ended up dating another girl. A friend told me. And like a month later he told me it wasn't working out. Yea after he cheated on me. Then I moved on from that. And a year later met someone when visiting my friends. And he said he would try the L.D thing because I was worth it. He lied. He cheated on me. So it took me awhile to move on from that one. But I have learned that if someone REALLY does care about you they are willing to wait.

Answer 5

Yeah that sucks, I did it too, just as many other people have. It's part of growing up and doing what's best for your future. Don't ever put your life on pause for someone.....do your thing to get where you want to go. If it works out afterwards, that's great, but don't beat yourself up over it.

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