Have you ever fallen in love with a straight person?

Question

I loved this guy in my class for 2 months so far and I could have sworn he liked me too, we would look at each other really quickly in the hall way and take turns looking..

well so I really fall in love with him and so I asked my friend who is the only person that knows im g*y to ask him if he was bi/g*y and he said he is straight!

I felt like he was perfect and I like him so much...

I feel so horrible

I guess hearing your guys' stories might lift me up a little bit

thanks so much everyone

Answer 1

I have never fallen in love with anyone g*y or straight. But in high school I had a crush on a guy who seemed to like me, even though I always acted aloof around him to hide the fact that I really liked him. Anyway, I felt badly when he got a girlfriend. He once told me that I have nice eyes so I was almost certain that he was g*y.

Answer 2

yes, its happened way too many times to me, i kinda feel heartboken cause i know it will never happen, but i move on =\

Answer 3

well, on my behalf, I fell in love right that moment I saw this guy. He made me feel different, like butterflies in my stomach. I visited him often and those days were the happiest time of my life. The last time I saw him, we went to the beach and on the way back home (his home) he kissed my hand. Next day, he called me saying his back was hurting a lot. So, I took the initiative to go see him, see what I can do to help him. Once I walked into the door, he was laying on his stomach, watching soccer and his back facing me the whole time. Then  my feelings came crumbling down and when I left his place I was crying. I have been emotionally down for 2 weeks, crying and thinking why this guy, the one that I had true feelings, turned his back on me. *he's straight*

Now, I am recuperating myself and raise my head up and moving on. I am dedicating myself to my job, my family and close friends I have. This sorry excuse of a human will get his pay back. I'm sure he will remember what he did to me.

So, take things a day at a time, so your feelings won't get hurt.

Answer 4

yes!!! I sure have. I had a best friend last year, and all of a sudden one day she started kissing me out of the blue. she knew i was g*y but she said she was straight. i liked her a lot, but she was scared to follow through with a relationship. we don't talk anymore. but anyway, that guy is probably just afraid! just give it time.

Answer 5

Yeah She was my best friend! I was 17 and she was 19 and we hung out and stayed the night together and she moved in with her boyfriend and I couldnt handle it and I told her how I felt and she wont talk to me now! But it happens once in a while!  

Answer 6

No

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Answer 7

Yes.  But I distance myself from that kinda thing now.  It hurts way too much!!  :@)

Answer 8

I have fallen in lust with a straight person but never in love. When you find out a person is straight you cannot waste your feelings on them, they will never be reciprocated. You only think you are in love, you don't really even know him. Hang in there someone will come along and you will forget all about him.

Answer 9

haha yes i have had a few straight crushes that have not panned out. lol im only 17 but it still hurt every time

Answer 10

Um, I'm not trying to offend you or anything but I don't think it's possible to fall in love with someone you barely know.

But anyway, I've had crushes on straight girls before, it's not fun.  

Answer 11

Yes....and it hurts like h**l....I'm just about dealing with the situation right now too though this time it's more of a crush than love.

But I must say...in your situation...I think your crush lied to your best friend out of fear. The fact that he has been looking at you so much in the hallway is almost sure to be a sign...it was a sign for me in the past. Why not try making friends with him. Find a way to have light conversation and crack some jokes. See if you could really develop the friendship and then you can try hanging out and lightly flirting with him at that stage. I think if he starts to trust you as a friend, he will be more inclined to let you know either subtly or overtly that he is interested in you....Give it a chance again...Go for it!

Answer 12

omg, this is like a typical scenario..

Ok, last year, i liked one of my mates, i was smitten, i lost sleep over him and all...yeh i know im silly lol

well anyways, i picked up on what i thought were "signs" but really they werent, it was wishful thinking on my behalf. Things like complimenting my underwear, smiling at me and catching my eye! he even slapped my *** one day..

I caught him looking at my crotch in class one day and he was like "oh you had a thread, it caught my eye" i was lik "oh right" haha

I could go on, the list is endless..but basically, he turned out straight and he found out i liked him(i think) and now im embarrassed and totally dont like him anymore haha!

You will move on,  your feeling lust not love!

Its hard, i found listening to music got me through it..try some songs by Placebo :D

All the best and chin up

xo

Answer 13

aw, i hope you feel better about it soon hun x

i know exactly what you mean. there's this girl that i've had a crush on for a good 5-6 months! and she's completely straight and i know that, it's just... i can't ever seem to stop myself from liking her.

it's really difficult sometimes because she gives me hugs,makes me laugh & i make her laugh, & sometimes she sits SOO close to me, and other times it's her body language around me... it's difficult sometimes, ha, but i never told her that i like her. i think it'd make her feel awkward.

but before i actually fell for a straight girl, as in i REALLY fell for her. i used to hang on her every word, rush to class to sit next to her, i would NEVER miss a lesson she was in, i spoke to her all the time, we hugged, and she was flirting with me without meaning to.. it really hurt but i had to tell myself finally that i can't let myself fall for her any harder because it would never work out.

she turned out to be a s**t the next year anyway  :D

i guess i'm a hopeless romantic *sigh*  

Answer 14

well you never really know mayb hes not straight jus scared and yes it has happen to me bt thn i got over her nd i found som1 better

Answer 15

I've had far too many crushes on straight girls. There isn't really much else to say...

Answer 16

Love? No. Crushes? Yes.

Answer 17

Well first of i'm straight. But if this person who asked the question asked it like that, most people would say there straight. I would suggest asking this friend to ask again but in a different way. Ask your friend to tell this guy that "he has a friend that likes him that is g*y and he ask me to ask you if you would want to go out with him". make sure he is alone with this friend and assure him that if he is in fact g*y that his secret is safe with him. or ask him out your self. take the risk.

I would say from what you said he sounds g*y to me, just does not want ot tell some one that he is and have it get around. Just like you. Well good luck and hope things work out for you.