Have you ever fell for a straight person?

Question

This summer I really liked this guy and he kept looking at me like I was almost sure he was at least bi/g*y so I almost fell in love for 2 months. Then I asked my friend to ask him and found out he is totally straight. Well now I feel horrible!

I'd like to hear your guys' stories if you have them...thanks so much!

Answer 1

yeah..and it SUCKS

Answer 2

T^T! I totally fell for straight girls.. gahh! sigh it hurts T^T... but that's okay :D cuz I managed to get over some of them hehehe! now.. the one i fall for is actually not straight! WOOT! ..sadly i wonder if i have a chance v___v

Answer 3

IT SOOOO TTLY SUCKS WHEN THAT HAPPENS!  

Answer 4

Yes I did...but I didn't know he was married then, or I wouldn't have let my hopes go too high.

I was a complete mess for over a year and wasted a year thinking about him while I should have been more attentive in my school work.

The result was a broken heart and a miserable life.

It sucks...I know.

Well, it feels good to be over him and I'm gonna move on and have fun.

(It's gonna suck having to see him everyday though)

His wife is pregnant already!

Now the thing that worries me the most is, I bought a birthday present for him while I was in love with him,  and I am supposed to give him on this September.

But now, I don't love him, (He dislikes me though) and I don't know what to do with the present.

They say that a present should be given to the person for whom it was bought for.

I don't think giving it to him will be a good idea.

But I can't keep it either.

What do you suggest?

XxPenguin HugsxX

Answer 5

yes sort of happens when u know like 1 g*y person

u sort of fall for guys even tho u know they're straight

Answer 6

all the girls i've known personally that i have been attracted to are straight. it sucks!!

Answer 7

i hate when that happens! I WANT TO !@#$ HIM!

Answer 8

god its horrible when that happens i get sooo depressed cuz theres this girl i love and im not even out of the closet yet but i think she kinda suspects that i like her and is kinda playing along with it but only cuz shes flattered she has a boyfriend and i just moved overseas so idk if i'll ever see her again she promised she would visit but idk if she will ugh im in love with her

Answer 9

That ALWAYS happens to me :'(

Answer 10

yeahhh, it's pretty depressing knowing theres not a chance in the world

Answer 11

I fell for this one boy who was straight when I was in the 5th grade. His name was Troy B. He was sooooo cute and his hair was OH! so gorgeous! I had a chance to do something with him one day and I never did it and I kick myself for never doing it. Ah well, c'est la vie!

Answer 12

Hi Kevz, Well all I can say is that as any love that is unrequited, it can be distressful. I really know how you feel!!

Since i was very little i've known that i am attracted to other girls (i'm a 17 yr old girl), recently i'd been hurt because I actually ended up becoming Infatuated with this older girl in college.

I Don't know exactly how, but it just happened, and I wanted to tell her of how i had deep feelings for her, but I was too nervous and hoped for her to make the first move- Because i got this vibe from her that she liked me back too, like we'd shared prolonged eye contact (i thought it was a soulful connection/exchange)- just staring into each others eyes in our class; then she'd act different towards me than she would with others; whilst looking at me she'd put her fingernail between her teeth or stroke her necklace...this all lead me to think that she liked me back, and some of the things she'd say to me and some of the signs she displayed which i read as signs of attraction through body language and behaviour, would make me believe that she felt the same, although we never spoke about the times we'd lock eyes, and because we weren't close friends, just class mates, i didn't get her contact info when she left, and so i ended up missing her.

But during this holiday i found her profile and it said there that she is interested in men....this was hurtful and shocking to find, i felt a complete fool...what had i seen wrong, did my perception deceive me?

Then i'd just question why she acted the way she did with me?

But I have come to learn that I must move on from this infatuation, and make myself happy, it was probably not meant to be!

For my mysterious attraction toward her, i wanted to open my soul for her, and the ebbing of my heart longed for her to return the affection she did not know of...i felt a fool for being infatuated, but you cannot help who you fall for; i've just got to be happy for the fruits that are ahead

Answer 13

totally different slant on things.......I'm a straight girl who has fallen in love with another woman.......where does that leave me??

Answer 14

Several times, it's a pain, especially when it's someone you work with a lot.  I've always said that some people just shouldn't be straight, it isn't fair to those of us who aren't.

Answer 15

exact thing happened to me during school except im not in love. but im not sure if he is straight. . . lets hope not!!! xD

Answer 16

Yes( cries on the inside). I cant really say im over her just yet. It really sucks, especially when i see her 3 times a week

Answer 17

yes, it happened and the result, he turned his back right at me. He knew that I was g*y.

Answer 18

I've had a crush on a straight bartender before, but I never actually fell for him.  Now my crush is mostly gone since he's more of a friend and he treats me as if I'm younger, even though he's 5 years younger than I am.  I like that, as if he looks out for me.   He didn't believe I was older than he was and made me show him my driver's license (this was when we were hanging out at another bar), so it was a nice compliment.

He's a good guy, too.  He's taught me everything I know about sports.  Now I can go into the bar and watch whatever game is playing (basketball, baseball, football, hockey) and actually understand what I'm watching.  When he wasn't busy he's stand near me and point out things I needed to know.  So yeah, a really great guy to me.  He has a girlfriend and I liked her the two times I met her.  (His ex/gf, on the other hand, is a total b**ch!)

Answer 19

YES. i knew she was straight but for her birthday i bought her a tiffanys necklace and put it her her locker and all she said was "... uhm, thank you...?" i was like in love with that girl. ugh that's the WORST feeling ever. falling for someone who's straight.