Have you ever felt like you'll never be good enough for someone?

Question

I feel like that about this guy I've liked for 3-4 years. Sometimes I think I'm just not good enough for him. I almost think, "Why bother?" Do you ever feel that way around a guy/girl, friends, family, etc.?

Answer 1

Definitely, and I'm even feeling that way right now. He's pretty much everything I want to be, but I can't climb to his level. It's especially humiliating because we're both aware of the gap. I know the whole "No one is above you" stuff, and I'm sure it's true, it just doesn't feel that way sometimes.

Answer 2

I always used to think I'm not good enough and that I'd never be good enough for anyone.  I never had a bf at school and was always bullied for being the fat kid.

As I grew up, I longed for a bf and to be with someone, but nothing ever happened and I got depressed.  Then I decided I was going to stp trying to be good enough and trying desperately for a guy to like me and just enjoy having friends.  

When I least expected it, I found a guy who was a great friend, who soon became my bf and now my fiance!  We're getting married next year!  

So yes, it's easy to feel you're not good enough, but just keep believing in yourself and stop trying to be who you think others want you to be.  Maybe time to stop worrying about this guy after 3-4yrs and just get on with life and see who else turns up...or maybe he'll be more interested in you if he sees you enjoying life and not hanging out for him??

Don't know if that helps!  Good luck!

Answer 3

ull never know if ur good enuff for sumbody untill u go for it...i use2 feel the same way about this guy that was build got all the girls cool n whatever..n later whn he was mine i couldnt get em off me..he was like my lil b****

Answer 4

hey hey dont say that your good enough for anything its the other person, fammily, friends, relationship etc.. that has to relise you are good enough and yer i felt like given up like ive given up on love for 2 years and now i finally found someone but the key is you have to be patient and always stay strong!

Answer 5

Yeah I have before. It sounds like you have low self esteem. Why is this man making you feel like you are not good enough? If anyone ever makes you feel this way, I say it's a sign that you are not in the right relationship.

You should be in a relationship with someone who loves you and excepts you the way you are. Anything less is just not acceptable!

Don't ever talk yourself out of being a winner!