Have you ever found yourself being snide to a pregnant woman?

Question

Have you ever taken out your frustration by being rude to a woman who was pregnant? Did you apologize?

Answer 1

do u go out of your way to find pregnant women to be rude to?  

Answer 2

never..although i understand jealousy..it is not their fault that you (not you . . . you know what i mean) can't get pregnant or are having trouble..and that is kind of immature really....as i said though i understand they are upset and wish it was them but i think that is over doing it there is no need for that

Answer 3

Well, with my first Baby was unplanned and a complete blessing and now that I am TTC, I can say that I have not been rude to any pregnant women or those that are trying as-well. It actually excites me more to see pregnant women and also to talk to others that are trying. I am sorry that your sis in law is doing that, and its hard to be the one that's jealous of. But its not your job to make her feel better.. You could go out of you way to make her feel better but its something that she will have to learn on her own. I know that when I got pregnant with my first daughter I worked with a gal that was wanting to have a Baby but her husband was never into the TTC. But I could feel her jealous feelings, because she was one that ware them on her sleeve.

I think it has a lot to do with Maturity level aswell. I know I have jealous feelings sometimes but the  quickest way I have gotten rid of them is to just be happy for their blessing, its a choice though. Good Luck with your Sis In Law!

Answer 4

Never in my life will I do that to a pregnant women.. having a baby is a blessing from god and I respect them for this!

Answer 5

when i was ttc ...i remember being jealous to them,but was never rude....lol..n i kept telling myself that even my time will come!!!...lmao

Answer 6

Wow i was in your shoes down to a T my SIL was preg then lost it at 8 weeks the same time i fell pregnant and she wouldn't talk to me she was terrible and i hated it and then when i lost my baby at 20 weeks (last week) she keeps calling me and being all nice its like this is what she was hoping for (for me to loose my baby that is) and I'm peed of at the whole situation

I say bugger her you just worry about yourself you need to be happy and healthy and that's all the matters just let her be and don't let her worry you, you don't need her dramas atm

Answer 7

no

Answer 8

No I've never done that. But I did have a woman who was TTC do that to me.   I decided to ignore it, I know full d**n well that it isn't my fault that woman couldn't get pregnant.  And I figured she was already being hard on herself and I dind't need to add to it.