Have you ever had a lover who was sexually inept?

Question

what did you do about it? did you run for the hills or try to remedy the situation?

keep it clean guys and dolls...

Answer 1

Yeah, I gently set her free.

Answer 2

lol a few....you teach em..

well then there was Mr. Three inch...who whined for 30 min's afterward.  never saw him again.

Answer 3

Yep, sadly.  But because 'things happen', I gave him the benefit of the doubt.  But really, it never improved.  And, seeing as I wasn't really looking for a long term commitment, the s*x was pretty important...so I moved on.  We're still friends tho...

Answer 4

My wife and are were each others first, so we were both sexually inept at the time, it was extremely awkward

What did we do about it? Practice practice practice...

Answer 5

No.

Answer 6

yes

i would've been willing to educate him, but he wasn't a keeper

Answer 7

Not inept but inexperienced.  I brought her along slowly and now she's almost as good as I am.

Answer 8

unfortunately. it didn't last long. i soon found someone better.

Answer 9

Yes and for the last time, SIZE does matter!!

Answer 10

I once heard it said that there is no such thing as bad s*x; only good s*x and great s*x. Don't know if that's true.

Although most of my sexual experiences have been positive, I briefly dated this one woman who was sort of an emotional cripple. She was extremely attractive, but making love to her was mechanical and cold. She did not know how to process emotions and would shut down afterwards. She was emotionally impotent. I had to end it.

Answer 11

I wouldn't say he was inept ... he was inexperienced and we weren't very compatible physically.

I'm afraid I didn't do either ... I just sort of stuck around because I was very fond of him and eventually he dumped me.

Answer 12

I don't know, because my own ineptness manifested first, so I didn't get a chance to judge the partner. :-) LOL

Answer 13

For me, s*x is like the grass.

http://www.pfleghaar.com/sketchblog/arch...

s*x is like when lovers stroll through the grass and tangle the grass with their rompings.   In this perspective of s*x, the concept of s*x originates from the grass, not the humans.To be one with the grass is very good s*x, indeed.

http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2105/1702...

This image below of "tangled" grass is s*x that has human acculturations.  In this perspective of s*x, s*x as a concept originates from the human, not the grass.

http://www.safarithatch.com/imageGallery...

Humans only can be "inept" at weaving.  Grass cannot be "inept" at getting tangled because there are no man-conjured expectations for the way Nature meant grass to tangle up together.  I convey to men that perception of s*x through my pre-sexual courtship behaviors with them.  It's like Popeye says, "I am what I am and that's all that I am."  That means if Nature spits us out the way we are, that's perfection.  We humans just made up the silly notion of "imperfection".  

I prefer to walk in the grass with men when we first become lovers because it's just more harmonious all around and less stressful than going darkly into some unnatural place in our heads where the baskets we weave with our acculturated technical "skills" can be "judged" as "inept" or not.  So, no.  I haven't ever once loved a man who was "inept" or impotent or incapable.  But, that's mostly because I can fix what ails men in those matters before we even hit the sack.  Making them chase me up mountains to "walk in the grass" up there is one of the many ways that I clear the nasty acculturated sexual cobwebs from the spirits of men.

Answer 14

No, but I've dated people who had completely different sexual tastes to me. We struggled to make it work, but it didn't.

Answer 15

"inept" is kind of a strong word, but his last girlfried had tastes that were totally opposite of mine.

i retrained him. now it's awesome.

Answer 16

Yes.. she just didn't have the drive or something.. She always tried to turn it around and say I was the problem..She was taking advantate of my naivety because she was my first.  I've since learned better!

Answer 17

LOL, oh God YES! To the curb she went....

Answer 18

yes. I hated it too. I kept telling him that he "could hold that in" but he never tried. I eventually gave up and stopped dating him.  In order for a relationship to work you need to be sexually compatiable in my opinion.

Answer 19

Yes, I did, but that was a time when I was naive and inexperienced with s*x as well, so I stuck around.  Practice makes perfect!  In the end, it made me more of a experienced lover.  Lucky, I haven't had any since!  Whoo hoo!  I'm pretty picky though when it comes down to who is going to be sleeping in my bed.

Answer 20

Yes, meat.  Though he may have been a good lover with another woman, he wasn't ringing my bells.    It was a weekend rendezvous so no further action was needed.  For the record, he was a great guy otherwise.

Answer 21

i was with someone who was on medication that affected her sensitivity, she also had a bit of that im so good looking i don't have to try thing about her, i didn't see it as a valid reason for  breaking up with her but we broke up over it eventually anyway.