Have you ever had booty call than turned into a real relationship?

Question

I was in a physical relationship a guy that I met at school. We stopped talking for a year. I dated other guys during this time but I never found anyone that I clicked with. Then I started thinking about him again. I missed him so I decided to give him a call to see how he is doing. He was happy to hear from me and we hung out. We went to a pub for a drink and after that we headed to his place to have s*x.

However, he told me that he is living town in couple weeks for work and his coming back after several months. I don't know what I am going to without him. I am trying to win him over.

Answer 1

For me this is the truth: a real relationship is based on friendship and trust.  Not just on s*x.  I base this on years and years of life experience.   There's no question in my mind.  Others can say what they like, but trust and loyalty are important to me.  

Answer 2

Yes. I had a 'booty call' that lasted about 4 months that eventually turned into a relationship. Were together for 4yrs and were engaged until I found out he cheated. End of Story

Answer 3

Nope.

You can only build on friendship, not on physical attraction.  If it starts with friendship it can turn into many different things including love, but if it starts with attraction only, its options are limited.

Answer 4

It's *possible* for booty calls to turn into something more, but I wouldn't hold my breath on this one. You shouldn't have to try to win him (or any guy) over. If he's really into you, he's not going to need any winning over, he'll want to take things to the next level naturally.

Answer 5

I reviewed my booty calls and boyfriends in my mind after I read this and there is no doubt about it: they are two different things. I simply look for two different things in each of these instances. If I have a hot friend that I already like and trust, he can easily become a booty call one drunken night. However, usually if I know a guy that well, I know why I WOULDN'T want to be in a relationship with him, and we just enjoy the s*x.

Good Luck though trying to make the transition!