Have you ever had it bad?

Question

theres this girl i work with....i really havent let anyone know im a L*****n at my job but i do have alot of personal friends there but theres this girl who name is adea (think im spelling it wrong), shes a cashier we talk and mess around alot ppl always tell us to stop flirting..rumor is that she is L*****n 2..but we all know you cant believe what u hear shes 21 im 18..i cant stop thinking about her...i mean i cant wait 2 get 2 work to c her..i have a huge crush on her i have a "girlfriend" but i still cant stop thinking about adea..have you ever had it bad for some1 like i have it 4 her...if so how did it end? or start or whatever lol

Answer 1

yeah there was this girl on my team that was two years older than me and she was just so beautiful and smart and everything i could ever want in a girl, but she's straight and has had a boyfriend for 3 years. but everyday i would go to practice trying to think of ways to charm her or make her think i was funny, but everytime id talk to her, i would just be at a loss for words and end up saying something stupid. im still in love with her, but it can never, ever be, and that sucks to the max for me. shes in college-with her boyfriend- and i havent talked to her in months

Answer 2

I have absolutely been in the same position before, many times! I'm really bad about falling hard for someone really quickly. It's like all of a sudden, something goes off in my head and I'm completely "in love" with her, and she's all I think about, all I want. So yeah, it's definitely happened before. Usually, I flirt and try to get to know her, but don't' really do anything too serious. Then, just as quickly as I started liking her, I lose interest and move on. That makes me sound horrible, I know. But, I'm just being honest. So basically, with me and crushes, things happen fast and end fast.

I think you should somehow have her find out that you're g*y. If you can work it into conversation naturally, then do it. Or, just comment on hot girls or something. Maybe if she knows you're g*y, she'll make a move. Since you have a girlfriend though, you really shouldn't do anymore than flirting...

Answer 3

Quit fantasizing and get busy.

Answer 4

aha see love does exist haha...ok no love talk cause thats gonna freak you out lol.

if you like this "adea" girl lol ask her out...well first find out if shes into girl or not then ask her out.

i mean if you cant stop thinking about her than this "girlfriend" of your lol then youre going out with the wrong person.

and yeah lol my ex. i had it bad for lisa when i was with john. how it ended...well you already know lol. i broke up with john and a few months later me and lisa got together....i still love her.

so give it a try with this "adea" girl.and youre hot do lol you shouldn't have a problem lol.

Answer 5

Oh, yes.  If I weren't finally old enough to know better I'd have it bad now for a new barrista at my favorite cafe.  He looks like Ryan Phillippe!  

Answer 6

Yes I have had it bad for someone.There was this man at church I had it bad for. But then I learned he got a girl pregnant out of wedlock.He married her.When I saw how messed up he is that helped me.He still hasn't pursued his dreams either and is working a dead end job so that killed my attraction to him.

I had it bad for a boy in high school.When I saw how lazy he is and learned that he pretty much smoked his life away, that killed my attraction.

LOL.

Answer 7

Yeah, it can be rough. I have it bad for someone now, who has a girlfriend. But I hear they've broken up before... this woman I like is active and likes the outdoors, like me, but her partner doesn't go hiking or anything.

And the woman I like always comes over to talk to me and we talk a long time until her partner shows up then we stop talking.

I hate it. But there is nothing I can do because she has a partner. so I just keep it to myself. It's torture around her and I try to avoid being around her but we run in the same social circles so ...

I just pray it will go away soon.

Answer 8

im going through the exacttttt same thingg

i cant stop thinkin about her, like theres never a day that goes by when i dont think about her

im trying to forget her but its sooooo hard to forget someone you already have a huge crush on

my feelings for her never ended, &+ probably never will

shes the first person i think about when i wake up in the morning &+ last person to think about before i go to bed

i cant waitt to go to skool to see her

if only i had the courage to tell her how i feel =\

((its weird cuz while i was writing this, she signed on aim)) Loll

Answer 9

whats up? yea that can be rough, i had a girlfriend, but i was totally into this other girl after a while. problem was, they hated eachother, and the other girl knew i liked her, and my girlfriend had no idea. i made the wrong decision by trying to sneak around wtih the other girl..whatever youdo..dont cheat. never ends well.