Have you ever had one of those days were you wonder about what's you friend's doing right at the moment?

Question

I mean okay so the van Wert County Fair's going on this weekend and i was down in Dayton today for the Ohio Ren Festival and i was wondering about what my friend was doing or who she hanging and about she talking about and i had this feelin all day that she talkin about me.

Is this normal?

Answer 1

i do that like, all the time LOL

Answer 2

It happens to me.

Sometimes I can be thinking about a person and they call me out of the blue. Sometimes I call someone else and they say "hey, I was just going to call you" or "I was just thinking about you."

But sometimes I think about people and they aren't thinking about me at all.

I think about it this way. Our brain thoughts send and receive in frequencies, like a radio. Sometimes you can pick up on someone else's channel and sometimes you can send messages that they can pick up. For me it's not predictable and I never really know if it's true or not at the time and sometimes I never find out.

I would think it's normal to think about your friends sometimes. Our brains tend to gravitate towards patterns. Some people develop bad habits that way and some use the tendency to be organized. You wouldn't want to let yourself get too obsessive about any particular thought pattern or way of thinking. You can always distract yourself and do something that will allow you to focus on another activity.

Self control is something that we don't stress too much in the USA, but self control has a lot of positive payback.  It's not easy, but it's an exercise, and you can get better at anything with practice.