Have you ever had to abort or know someone who did, their parents/ fam disowned them for "killing a baby"?..

Question

I'm just curious.

I am asking this because I'm neutral when it comes to abortion.

My mother had a cow when I told her this and uses the blibical stance on why it's wrong.

I can see that, but I can also see the otherside.

I know of someone who had this happen to her..

it was a very traumatizing experience of course,

She didn't expect her family to react in such a heinous way,

she's doing better now..and it's slowly making progress.

It's taken a lot of years, as she grew up with a strong reglious back ground and when she got pregnant she feared for her future and had an abortion, but her parents found out..

she wanted to live her life, but she had been sheltered for the most of it..

But have any of you gotten pregnant..or know someone who has the parents were flamboyant about the situation, to the point of disowning because they felt it was murder or anything along those lines..?..

Answer 1

i do NOT believe in having an abortion unless:

you are raped,

or the baby is dying or you are dying

i am a Nurse, and abortion IS murder

the baby has a heartbeat and CAN feel pain

you wanna know: silentscream.org

watch THAT video, and tell me it ISNT dying...

Answer 2

im the same we had a debate about this in class:S that was scary . but i see both sides i mean what if u were raped, its not like u were fooling around and didnt use protection, but on the other hand its a living being, but then again u know its ur life and its easy for others to say live with it....so im neautral

Answer 3

There was one girl that  I knew...we were not in love. It marks you forever. She decided. Either way I had to support her decision. But everytime I saw her after that, I could tell she had a very deep sorrow. Technically it is killing. It is a very difficult decision to make. I am against it but when I was in the situation, it was not my decision to make. It is only the person who carries that can decide and then faces to live with the decision. Good luck sweetness!

Answer 4

honey i feel as u  though I've never had a abortion(I'm a male) but i fell that there r 2 many kids out there that nd love and if u want 1 fine, but to bring a child in2 the world and not wanting it, growing 2 rezent it or addictions r 1st a woman shouldn't have it

Answer 5

I'm with you, it's a 50/50 situation. Sometimes it's a necessity and other times there are other options. It's the women that use it as a form of birth control that make it worse!