Have you ever had to deal with?

Question

someone that's full of jealousy??

and becuz of this they try to do anything and everything they possibly can to hurt you and cause trouble for you??

How can one deal with this kind of person/situation?

Answer 1

u must read " Allahuma ina najaluka  fee nohorihim Wanozo bika min shororehim" from people who u think can be of harm to u with the hukum of Allah.

& Allah will keep u away from their evilness inshallah.

Answer 2

Yes! And it get verry annoying because they are the ones who soon distance themselves as friends with me.

Let them be jelous, just get on with your own life, if a friend cannot be happy for something you have rather than being jelous, then they are not true friends. If they're not friends anyway, you've got nothing to lose.

Juse pray they don't do Nazaar on you with jelousy. I don't have time for people who cannot be happy for what each other have, because they will always try to bring you down in life. Be greatfull what you have yourself and happy for what other have.

Answer 3

distance yourself from them and just ignore them completely.

The Prophet (pbuh) said: "Avoid envy, for envy devours good deeds just as fire devours grass"

Answer 4

let me tell, you first off that i had a "really good friend" last year and i was the new kid at school and so was she. we were both just trying to fit in and make some friends. then we kinda grew apart and had HUGE arguments like weekly.  she dated a somewhat cute guy and i soposivly got lucky and dated the cutest guy ever. she got jealous and we hated eachother for a long time.

   a couple of months later i got a haircut and it was super cute (side-bangs, layers) lol sry the summer after guess who had matching haircuts... she would do anything to be just like me. i started to hang around other people, she either tried following me around or trying to persieve me to go somewhere else. i made better friends she would either try to make them be her friends or she would be jealous and my new friend would suddenly be her new enemy. she soon started going after my stuff. i got a vera bradley pencil pouch, well she didnt have one so she took it right out of my locker in frount of me!!! this girl tells her mom everything!! so when i send her an email trying to apologize for whatever the heck i did she will write back something mean just so i write something mean back and ill end up getting in trouble. or she even texted me in class and said "haha" of corse my cell rang and i got caught.

   she still continues to do minor things now but over the summer we just arent friends anymore. in othre words just be yourself and dont worry about her. ignore her and stay away from her at all costs. she isnt worth your time.  

Answer 5

Yeh i know this kind of person. You need to show them who's boss. :)

Answer 6

ignore them.  don't answer their calls.  don't return their calls.  if they visit or call you are "busy".

duh

Answer 7

Get a restraining order against him, if that doesn't work ..... you have seen the movies.  

Answer 8

There was this girl where I work who is very jealous and always says bad things about me.

She couldn't really cause trouble because my position is higher than hers but it was really frustrating for me fortunately she transfered to another outlet and thank god I don't have to see her face again.

The best way is to keep calm and be smart and deal with the situation effectively and not get angry because if you get mad they wins

Edit: lol just curious why did extremists gave me so many thumbs-down.Can these cowards at least say why?

Answer 9

Just ignore Him  

Answer 10

Get away from them.