Have you ever liked a teacher before? I'm so confused...?

Question

I really like this history teacher at my school. He's not old or anything. Actually he's quite young. Like 20 or something. Anyway, it started like on the 3rd day of his class and I just noticed how he looked. Then I was crushing. I know I'm supposed to just think of him as a teacher but I do these little things like showing off and working really hard in his class. I know I shouldn't be doing this but he is cute. So I'm confused to what I should do. I don't want to completely ignore him or go goo-goo eyed over him. I just want to be his friend and not have anything awkward going on between us. What should I do?

Answer 1

Just think about him only as a teacher and not an object of s*x fantasy. It will keep you out of trouble (big time) and when you get matured enough, you will be thankful about the education you got from your teacher instead of orgasms.

Answer 2

first off.. how old are you? i am guessing younger then 18 right? one thing that you should think of to stop any type of relationship is if something did happen, whether or not your concent, he will be in trouble for you being a minor, and he will be in trouble with the law and lose his career for life. do you want that to happen to him?   crush on him all you want, but i would leave it at that. even a teacher/student friendship isnt the greatest idea. if he is willing to be your friend, he is willing to take it to the next level, and like i say, i wouldnt go there.

i was once there. thought my teacher was the hottest guy alive. but i guess what stopped me was knowing that this "fling" would have stopped sooner or later and i wasnt willing to ruin his life over it!

Answer 3

if your still in high school thats against the law for him to have that type of relationship with you.

Answer 4

Your the student and he is the teacher and that is the only relationship possible. Any friendship can only be as student / teacher.

If it's any consolation I don't think there is a pupil or ex pupil from any school or at any age that has not had a crush of some sort over a teacher.

Working hard in class is a good idea as it will secure your future but the showing off will simply make you stand out as a problem student.

Take a good look around the other students, somewhere there is a lad who you can crush on and probably get to know as a friend.