Have you ever lost interest in someone the moment you've deciphered their obsessions?

Question

Have you ever lost interest in someone the moment you've deciphered their obsessions?

Answer 1

yes

Answer 2

Yes:)  On dates especially. The guy talks and talks about his life, then he mentions something what he considers trivial...like going partying almost ever night or that he goes home after a day and the first thing he does is ensuring that he can keep in touch with all his 90 regular email-partners...

These are no real obsesons, but things that you cannot imagine that you could once come to tolerate.

Answer 3

Yes, if I've found that the person's obsessions are things which are abhorrent to me -such as the person I found out was religious to the point of being psychotic.

Answer 4

Three times. =(

Answer 5

Yes, I think it's good to have a bit of mystery.

Answer 6

no, can't say that i have!♥

Answer 7

yes unfortunately, it was very judgmental of me and i regret it. matter of fact i realized what a jerk i have been and tried apologizing yesterday. I think obsessions is more than what makes a person. It might be a big part but there are still many other sides of the person or different perspectives that we might be missing. everyone is the way they are usually for a rational reason and if after understanding that it doesn't interest me or i feel it might be detrimental to me then i might lose interest but usually is not the case...hopefully not anymore

Answer 8

Yes, a couple times.  Once, because I was creeped out beyond belief, and somewhat feared for my life.  Another time, because I was put off by the extreme immaturity.

Answer 9

Truth is boring