Have you ever loved someone so much...?

Question

Have you ever loved someone so much, you had to let them go and find themselves and clear there heads? What if letting them go was the wrong decision?

Answer 1

Yes I did it hurts still today 25 years later.  I still love him, hope and pray someday will see each other again.  What ever meant  to be will always find away..have faith and good luck.  

Answer 2

if u think u made the wrong decision then go find them, and if its really meant to be it will be.u will never know if something was the wrong decision unless u go back to that person and see if they feel the same.if u even think a mistake was made go back,don't let ego and hurt feelings get in the way.

Answer 3

If its truly meant to be than it will work out.

Answer 4

I have loved someone enough to let them go because I didn't want to end up hurting them by staying when I knew I wasn't in it for the long haul.

Answer 5

DJ my man, I am in the situation...I don't think letting them go can ever be the wrong decision guy. If someone wants to be held on to, they won't let you let them go. You know the old saying, if you love someone set them free and if they come back it was meant to be. I loved my wife but I had to let her go because of the things she did. I know exactly how you feel.

Answer 6

Wow! I went to your profile and read your past questions...you are hurting friend, and hurting bad.  Bad enough that this board isnt going to be much help.  You need to see a therapist to help you through this.  You arent able to think straight the pain is so intense and so real to you.  I imagine you cant stop thinking and that its affecting other areas of your life.  

Breaking up is like a death. Its an emotional meatgrinder. Its so painful especially when you didnt choose it.  But when someone dies you know they still love you.  When you break up, you have the added fact that someone chose to leave you.  Ouch!

Your soul is in anguish.  Deeply.  

Please go talk to a professional.  You wont regret it.  If you get a good one.  There is no shame to it.  Nothing to be embarassed of.  It feels good to talk to someone that isnt personally involved.

good luck.  

Answer 7

Yes I let someone go because I loved them very much.  I knew staying with them was only hurting them more.  It was the right thing to do if you did this.  

Answer 8

If this person wanted to go "find themselves" of course you have to let them go and its the right decision. This "finding myself" stuff is usually just a way to get out of a relationship. Try to get over this person, if you really love them, then you want them to be happy, right? You can't force someone to stay with you and love you, you won't be happy. Find someone else!

Answer 9

No..Then you shouldn't have let them go!

Answer 10

Yes, I let him go, and while he was finding "himself"... I found my husband.  

Answer 11

No  I haven't.  But I once fell in love with a man that didn't love me.  We had a relationship, and all the time he had just lied.   And lead me to think he cared.  I had to recognize and accept,  that he had never cared for me and walk away.   It's not that they need space.    They just don't care and that is why they make up the excuses they do.  But when they feel lonely and in need of someone loving them.  They come back,  just to use for the time needed.  Then it starts all over again.  Until the one who is being emotionally abused gets fed up, and decides to walk away forever.