Have you ever meet someone and..?

Question

just completely and totally clicked on everrr single level that thre possibly is to click on? I have and I have been hanging out with him every single day for the past month. he says he has never felt like this and i think i feel the same exact way. im 24 hes 28, known him forr sometime just never started hanging out until recently. something feels soo right, so unexplainable. i dont tell any of my firends about it (even though we all know each other) bc i dont want to hear someone say, "oh just be careful or oh he is only using lines" i know in my heart he is being completey honest with how he feels. Now my question isss, has anyone ever felt this way or simliar?? Any stories to share? Do u think im dumb..were not quite rushing anything. we havent slept together yettt, even though we spend the night at each others apartment everyyyy night. it just feels so easy and natural. its only been a month but like i said a hundred times we see each other everyday. Opinions??

Answer 1

My man and I have been together for almost two years.  We were friends before that.  I liked his personality and enjoyed spending time with him.

When we started dating we clicked on almost everything.  We still do as a matter of fact.  I did have one person tell me he was a player, but I think that was either the result of his ex trying to mess things up or the guy had interests of his own.

Two years later we still click and once in a while I'll say something and he'll stop and say I stole his heart again.  

Yeah.  It can happen.  And you're lucky if it does.  I wasn't so lucky with my ex.  Oddly we didn't click on much at all, but I was too desperate back then to care.  It's different this time.  The whole thing feels different.

Answer 2

Yes i've felt it i feel it now for someone really special even thought we are both married to someone else, and i know what you mean by not telling anybody because after i told my bf and my sister they told me exactly what you don't want 2 hear, that hes just lying to me and all kinds of negative things, but i feel so good with him, he is the one person i can be me with, i wish we would of met before we were married, This is something i had never felt before and i thank God that i had the chance to feel this way toward someone, it just feels too good in every way, YES there is a way that two  people can click one evey level possible, you are one of the lucky ones because there are people that have never felt that and maybe never will because they are too scared to give themselves in or maybe because they are to scared of what others may think. You are not dumb, Maybe i am because i met that person after i got married, i never felt that for my husband and i don't think i ever will, but you got it and you havent even had s*x with this guy yet, i'm not trying to push you into having s*x, but if you guys are so compatible with everything else, can you just imagine how great s*x would be. Take one day at a time and don't push anything what needs to happen will eventually happen, just don't be scared. Good luck.

Answer 3

Enjoy this to the fullest, but take your time, this stage usually wears off.  See if you still feel this way about each other a year from now before making any potentially life-altering decisions.  

Answer 4

I felt that way when I met my husband.  It was just natural & easy.  No awkwardness.  The only thing that concerns me is that you're sure your friends would make him out to be a player.  If they all know him why would they collectively think that if it's not true?

Answer 5

Just keep your eyes open and enjoy, you are lucky!

Answer 6

Sounds like a great match! But take it slowly, this could be the honeymoon stage.  

Answer 7

no i dont think your dumb i think you should do what your heart desires...im in the same pardicument as you my boyfriend is 18 and im 15 ik were ment for each other so just do what you feel is right

Answer 8

Just enjoy it. People say it ends, but it doesn't have to. Be respectful, but give each other some time apart. If you don't, you will end up getting tired of each other way to quick. Also, it establishes trust between you, and the bond you get from it, can with stand the tests of time.

Follow you heart and stop analyzing sweetie!

Answer 9

i broke up with my ex and started hanging out more frequently with his BFF. We had hung out together before but not alone.  After one weekend of hot steamny s*x and lots of conversation and no sleep we were like "I love you"  8 months later we were married and we still are. So sometimes, you just know.  Words cant explain it .. its just a feelings like no other.  Be careful.... but accept it...he could be the one.  Good Luck