Have you ever slept with a married person?

Question

Besides your wife/husband? What do u think the reason was they strayed from their spouse? Did you do it in their house? Did you ever get caught? How long did it go on for?

Answer 1

I think people stray because they're incapable of being honest with themselves and others. It's easy to point the finger as to why I cheated, my wife did this, didn't do that...but the truth is, I'm cheating because I'm not man enough to admit the truth to my wife/girlfriend that I need this or that or that I want to move on, etc. No matter what she does or doesnt do, if I cheat...I'm the responsible party 100%. Blaming is a cop out!

Got caught sometimes. Doesn't matter if you physically get caught because emotionally and spiritually, you will always pay the piper until you own up to it and make it right...The guilt stays there.

Too long...the first minute is long enough...unfortunately, I wasn't aware of the consquences for a long time.

Be true...it might hurt, but in the long run, you will be the one smelling like roses

Answer 2

I used to work at an island resort during my college summers... being 18, with hormones running wild, all I did was drink and hook up with vacationing women.

I always made it a point to never ask for any more information than I needed....I didn't even care about names.  Just looking to hook up with hot women, who were looking to party at their vacation.  

There was one woman however, that revealed to me that she was married.  We met earlier in the evening at a bar, we both drank pretty heavily into the evening...One thing led to the next and we made it back to her rental cottage.  After the deed was done she rolled over and laughed...."I bet my husband would be pissed if he found out about this"... She explained to me that her husband was recent put in jail for his 4th DUI and her sister took her to the island for a week to get her laid as much as she could.

I left as soon as I heard about that, and never saw her again.

Answer 3

Yes.  I was (supposedly) better looking than the husbands.  I was younger, too.  The girls were not getting enough at home.  NEVER did it at their places.  Never got caught.  I was so far off of marriage material that it was never a worry that the young women were going to ditch their hubby's for me.  I was in my early 20's, they were all late 20's /early 30's.

Now, of the 9 or 10 "affairs" I was involved in, not once did I inititiate it.  I was so sure they were out of my league, that I still couldn't believe it, even when they were pulling my pants down.

Boy! Did I learn things from those women. NOT just sexual things, but the best way to get along with young single women and how to seduce them.

PS...they all said "enough's enough"  after a few times.  They were older and wiser, knew when I was getting too love struck.

Answer 4

yes.  I had a long time relationship with a married person while I was also married.  Several times at his house.  WIfe found out - even about us being in her house and she still wants to stay with him.  I'm not sure who is weaker, her for wanting to keep her cheating husband or me for hoping she kicks him out so I can have him back.  Me? Her? Both?

Answer 5

No because morally it is wrong. Most married people stray because they are no longer happy, their spouse has slacken off, they are trifling, selfish, etc.  

Answer 6

yes, it was cause they were not getting what they need from their men, never did it in their houses, either my house or in hotel, never been caught, some gone for years and some was just few times.

Answer 7

Broken Hearted, I've never been ugly to anyone on YA, but you're a s**t.

No, I've never slept with a married person. It's just wrong.

Answer 8

had a relationship with a co-worker who was married and i had someone that i dated? Was begin to fall in love with the marry guy and he knew it? Is wrong to sleep with a marry guy? Marriage is for life and is not worth to cheat on someone and keep it going.if you are caught your *** is grass that  you will be kicked out or they might take you back.

Answer 9

No. not that I was not tempted or had the opportunity to do so. but  because I like to be able to look at myself in the mirror and live life without guilt. For those who cheat it is usually a matter of time before they get caught and I for one would not want to cause anyone the heartache and pain that goes along with that behavior.

Answer 10

a married guy no

a non married guy yes

Answer 11

Nope!!!

I hope that all cheaters get caught!!!

Answer 12

many many times all is Him He is all who is married to whom we are all married to Him