Have you ever spent your whole life, trying to find the right person?

Question

In all my life, I have not found the right partner, that I've really liked, or been attracted to, is that unusual?

Answer 1

It's not unusual but do not try too hard.  If it means to be, will be.  He will show up when you least expected.   Good luck.

Answer 2

I don't think it's all that unusual.  I suggest e-harmony, since they can match you up with a person who has characteristics that match your needs, takes the randomness out of it.

Answer 3

Funnily, I've never spent any time at all looking for "that person"...they've always suddenly dropped from the sky..... I don't know why, sometimes there's little explanation for things that happen........ what's not "unusual" in this world anyways? Just keep looking.............maybe you're just picky......even then, picky people will find other picky people eventually :)

Answer 4

No, its normal. you will

never find the 'right' person

simply because there is none.

but that doesnt mean you can't

be happy with the guy your with now,

or will be with. dont waste your life

searching for something you can't

have, its useless.

Answer 5

Well, I haven't spent my whole life yet. So no.

It's part of life searching for someone or something, so I don't think it's unusual.  

Answer 6

If you have spent most of your life trying to find the right person....you will be very lonely because there is no such thing as the perfect person that you are looking for.   Everyone will have pros and cons to their relationship.    If you wait for that perfect person, you will be single the rest of your life.    Life is too short to be alone.    Don't be so picky and just enjoy who God gives you!   You never know how soon you will fall in love....Good luck!

Answer 7

how do you know it's been all your life? are you 80 years old and on your deathbed? seriously...if you're still about 18...quit worrying and go out and have some fun.

men like women who are confident and happy with their life.

stop looking for perfection. all you'll find is disappointment.

and no matter how happy you try to look, if you're miserable about being single, you WILL send vibes to show that you're unhappy. men will pick it up on their radar.

so find out what else makes you happy in life...work with that. learn to keep yourself company, make the most of what you have. when you're comfortable with that, love will come when you least expect it to.