Have you ever thought about ending it all? but then...?

Question

okay this may sound emo, but oh well.

have you ever thought about a time where you feel like life is so empty, and that you want to just end it all? but then you wouldn't end it because of love?

if so, tell me about your story.

Answer 1

yeah thats true.. my life may be an example 2 it....there was this one day when i thought that everything is over for me in my life.. all the hopes that i had on life was destroyed.. i decided to bid a final adieu to the world but thats when i made a final call to my lover to hear his voice for the last time... but the love we have for each other told me that what more do you want other than him... he is my world and will be my world forever... i love him a lot...

Answer 2

yeah...

you need some time off..

think about yourself..and treat it right..

eat healthy ...massage your self..

and then everything will feel good...

u wil be more happy...or go on hopliday to clear your mind off ..

and then get back on the road of love..be strong ...and be good  

Answer 3

I have felt pain in my life over different situations that was so great I would like to just end things to stop feeling it.  Growing up, my parents were divorced and I had a drunk for a step dad.  He made me completely miserable.  Then of course there has been relationship troubles.  But things always get better and what I always think of when I have felt that way is how I would hurt the ones that love me and how they would have to live their whole lives dealing with my selfishness.  Now I have a child...and just the thought of anything happening to me and leaving her without a mother is more than I can stand.

Answer 4

Yeah, Love is a strange thing.

Answer 5

Yeah, I did, and I actually had a knife to myself before. I'm going to suggest that you DON'T go over the edge, just because of a feeling that is going to pass eventually. Well, it wasn't really, love? I guess, not over someone like a romantic relationship or anything like that, but it was more of love for the people that would hurt if I had done it. On the outside, I seemed like a happy person, but on the inside, I was hurting. I didn't want anyone to know that I had been hurting, and killing myself or attempting at it would have shown a weakness on my part, and I'd have to have that kind of legacy for forever, because after I died, I wouldn't be able to fix it. It may sound emo, but there are a lot of people that think and feel the same way, and then make fun of others who feel like that. Best wishes... :)  

Answer 6

this may sound stupid but there wa split seconds were i would just sit on my bed and blank out reality and think whats the point and theres nothing for me here and i have no future. im not suicidal or owt i just sometimes think about it then i think i have family and friends and a boyfriend that care about me and i wouldnt want to hurt them by doing something stupid.

Answer 7

HI Dave,

I think that, for the most part, everyone has had at least a fleeting thought of suicide. It's interesting to note, however, that there was a study recently (sorry, I don't have a reference for it), where in they talked to people who had attempted but failed to kill themselves. Something like 90% regreted the attempt the split second it occured.

I've worked in the psych field, and my one piece of wisdom is that suicide is a permanent solution to what is often a temporary problem.

Answer 8

I've had some pretty dark days over my lifetime (I'm almost 55).  The thing is, don't depend upon only "love" to get you thru the dark patch, because that means you're depending upon someone ELSE to pull you thru.   Love is great, but every day people have loved ones die, or divorces occur, so you need something else to prove to yourself that's it's worth it to live.   You don't need to find a great hobby or even a wonderful job or great course at school (but, that does help).   Learn to accept the joy that comes from eating a wonderful meal, or seeing a beautiful sunset, or smelling a fragrant flower.

Generally, It's the LITTLE things that make me smile during the day.  The trick to life is to find enough little things to balance out the negative things that will, inevitably, happen to all of us.

Answer 9

no, ending your life is the stupidest thing anyone can ever do in my opinion