Have you ever wondered about how the opposite s*x sees things?

Question

I am a straight guy but I was wondering why is it such a big difference on how the opposite s*x sees things. For example when two girls kiss guys find that hot. But when guys kiss it is gross and disguising. Additionally when a girl goes to the movies with her friend it is defined a normal. But when two guys go the movies it is seen as weird and they can`t go as friends because it would make them unconfrontable. When a girl says to another girl that she is very beautiful nothing is wrong with that. However if a guy says that a man is beautiful it is defined as g*y or weird. But you get my point? Why is there such a difference on this perspective as far as the opposite s*x?

Best explained answer get the 10 points!

Answer 1

It has to do with a lot of things. Firstly that many men are insecure and do not feel comfortable with their sexuality enough to compliment other men on how they look.

Secondly, its society standards. Why is a female able to drive a black lifted pick up truck and not be labeled, but a guy who drives a pink beetle would be seen as g*y.

Society as a whole has to be open minded for things to change.

Answer 2

Because women are more secure than most straight men

they're afraid of being labelled and are insecure

Answer 3

Women get away with a lot of things...going to the restroom together, looking at each other, hugging or kissing like you said...It is a stereotype thing that has been going on for years but even that is changing because of so many people are coming out now that with women these days if something like that goes down its being said that they are g*y or must be g*y if caught together. Just a mind thing that's been going on for years and insecurity now its caught up with the women. Men also worry about what people will say or what people think of them if this happen or if that happen.

Answer 4

Straight guys are insecure with their sexuality, where as we lgbt people just accept it. They (straight guys) are in constant fear of being g*y, well most of them are, so they worry about others and not themselves.  

Answer 5

Whoa, let me clarify one bit of your opening there.

Straight women can find g*y men hot just as straight men can find lesbians hot.  The majority of women I know are SO into g*y p**n.

Answer 6

Because men are insecure

Answer 7

Its because of ignorance and double standards your society has!