Have you found yourself to be forgotten?

Question

at this moment I feel so down and often feels so sad.

the thing is I found my friends,who used to be close with me, hang out sometimes without even asking me.

and now I feel like im alone.being forgotten.

how should i handle this??

ive done nothing wrong.

the thing is that when i was at grade 5-6 I suddenly became an aloner.so i didnt really hang out and things like that.but things started to change dramatically when I entered high school.

I started to hang out, had many friends especially during late year 8 and early year nine.life felt so good.and then now as im about to enter my senior years, im like forgotten.maybe im not that 'fun' because i still live with the side effects i had from when i was still an aloner.

basically i feel so sad now.and desperate.have no motivation to live.someone help please.what should i do.

Answer 1

some times its ok to be forgotten... It gives you a chance to look back at the mistakes of your past and to improve upon your future...

Answer 2

You are not being forgotten.  There is a saying...the only thing constant in life is change.  You'll meet new friends in college...you'll have a good time with them...and you'll move on...

There is another saying, "One friend in a lifetime is much; two are many; three are hardly possible" (Henry Brooks Adams).  Yes, there are some people who seem to have a zillion friends, but you'll find that these people are able to only keep and maintain them either b/c they are social (extroverts) and people give them energy, or they are the types that people are attracted to because they know themselves and aren't in an ego battle with anyone.

Being alone and being lonely are two different things.  Remember, people aren't happy b/c they are constantly hanging out with friends...look around at all the kids around your age...you may see them having fun, but I see them trying to have fun so as not to think or feel the more unpleasant things in life.  I'm not at all surprised they have problems with addictions to s*x, alcohol...they feel the same way you do, but they'd rather forget feeling alone with alcohol and drugs, then ask what you should do...you may not feel it, but you are doing the right thing by just asking instead of trying to cover over the feelings...

I'm afraid life isn't going to get easier...however, the good news is...you can make life to be anything you want...find your passion, which you need to do when you are alone...

Answer 3

Yeah. We have the same problem. I really felt so bad. My former friends are always at our house before and i'm always have an open hand to them, every time they arrive, i serve good food, make them comfortable... and there were times that they barrow money from me, and i did not hesitate.

Now i'm broke....they were all gone! I feel i was "trying hard" to win them back but suddenly i said to my self "why the heck will i  insist my self to them, i have nothing done wrong"...so that time, i said to my self "i give up!"

Now, i'm happier than before. I'll make friends to those worthy to be my friends.

I suggest you love your self even more now. Life is beautiful so make it to the fullest. Never mind them and just give your attention to your love ones.

Answer 4

ive had the same problem like 83948173 times.

you need to think about whats going on in your life thats good right now. try joining a club or something where you can meet new people- dont be afraid to branch out from your friends.

also, the movie charlie bartlett could really help you- he gives this kid advice that has a problem kinda like yours. dont give up on life- think about it. god must have put you on this earth for Some reason. for example, god put me on this earth to serve soft-serve ice cream. it sounds funny but it is so true because i am amazing at it. he wouldnt have put someone on earth that would just waste a life by not living it to the fullist and giving up on every little situation.

hope this helps :D

Answer 5

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