Have you had a fight with a close friend and,,,,, miss them alot?

Question

i was very close to a friend,, our kids fought so we fought too in defend of our kids,, even though we were very close our kids got us pretty mad with eachother

its been nearly a year already,,, i see her now and then and i miss those chats and our friendship [i saw her tonight and we said hi only]

i know she would b missing me too as i was pretty much her closest friend and i was a pretty good friend to her as she was to me aswell

she will never bring it up or approach me about it as her daughter was the one who caused the problems [she knows this]

so the ball is in my court to see if our friendship will ever b mended

i still feel bitter about it,,, but on the other hand miss her so much

should i even try to b friends again? or... move on?,,, what would you do?

Answer 1

I fell out with one of my best mates in January this year, after her son knocked out my Tobias.

Sometimes I miss her, sometimes I don't.

I am not going to be friends with her, until she realises the sun don't shine from her sons backside. The pain she put us threw, and the denial of her son's actions made me sick.

I say move on. I have newer better friends now. If I want a talk I have plenty of people to call, I think.

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Answer 2

I was in a similar situation...you have to decide what's more important..your pride or your friendship...everybody goes through things at one time or another...swallow your pride & try to get your friend back..that's way more important than any fight.

Answer 3

at the end of the day, kids will be kids. at the moment my daughter plays with a boy who can be at time, horrible, but his mum knows this and punishes him accordingly depending on what he does. she appreciates my honesty in telling her that her child has done something to upset mine and no way, in my eyes will it ruin our friendship

If you miss her that much, then yes, its time to move on and make friends

Answer 4

life is too short to live with regret or grudges...maybe its time to keep what happened in the past and move forward.

If you think you can be good friends with her again without the fight interferring with your feelings towards her, then make peace and give it another go.

Sometimes nasty things are said in the heat of the moment and most will live to regret them but have too much pride to admit they are wrong or sorry.

Hope it works out for you :)