Have you had your heart broken?

Question

how many times?

I have twice...it feel so bad...i just wanna shout and shout of the pain i feel...because i had to leave that love...

Answer 1

at least 6 times

Answer 2

Yes, I have twice.

It's the worst pain in the world.

Answer 3

YEs once,  got over it but it took a year.

Answer 4

Yes.... sob....

Last night, 11pm, I was rushing home from Dollis Hill Station..... And Sam's Great Tasting Chicken was closed..... all I wanted was a chicken breast in crispy batter.....

I can't take it anymore.... goodbye cruel world....

Answer 5

Yes definitely, a few times unfortuantly it is a part of life..

Answer 6

Yes twice for certain and one kind of. I know that makes no sense but the third time is that I have been falling for someone I can't have. There's nothing I can do about it and it really hurts.  

Answer 7

well well well :S

have i had my heart broken?

probably more than anyone else.

ill just tell you my story-....

i was out with my mates one day and we went down to this park thing and at the time i was going out with a lad called Chris . He was really **** at snogging and i started to dislike him so i finished him. i obviously broke his heart because he doesnt talk to me much anymore tbh he ignores me. anyway then i started to like this lad hes called Josh and we were like best mates really close and that ; but i couldnt help loving him , after a few months i told him how i felt and then we went out with each other for 3 days. But he decided to finish me. i cried because not only the one person i truly loved i lost but also lost him as my best mate. i miss him so much it has been a month now and i still am not over him " ( . wot can ya do eh? well as my story goes on my 2 best friends Cody + Jodie both are in love with this boy called ashleigh . He fancies me real bad but i kind of lead him on by flirting with him i couldnt help it hes mega FIT. but i couldnt like him bcos my best mates do . one day ashleigh invited me round to his house and we went to his room and i snogged him once :S well a few times to be precise. i didnt tell my best friends that i did that cos i didnt want to hurt them . when i got home he text me saying i guess we are going out then but i couldnt go out with him bcos of my mates loving him too. i had to say no but i do trulylove him but i cant admit it to anyone they wont listen to me. so i had to let him go too.: (

2weeks ago one of my other friends Jarvis (boy) asked me out and i said yes cause he's really nice. i didnt see him for two weeks bcos he went on holiday and so did i . I found out he cheated on me with 2 girls i fort he might of been the one but NO . right down he a real NOB. so guess what i played his ******* dirty little game too . ! i am now going out with a boy called jonny . hes lovley bless him. and i have been heartbroken more times than you have had hot dinners!

My head is confused . i dont know what to do ?

should i tell cody and jody that i snogged ashleigh ?

should i still love josh and see if it works?

should i finish jonny?

should i love ashleigh?

pleasehelp.

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Confused Girl.

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Answer 8

yes. more than once and i am going through it right now. i always get the bad end of the deal and am blamed for the ending of the relationship. i guess i have bad judgement of men because the  relationship that just ended on thursday was my second serious one and before that i was in a 13 year marriage so i havent had alot of relationships and being rejected is hard to handle. if you have any more questions you can email me at memyselfnbrannt@yahoo

Answer 9

HEARTBREAK...THE FEELING OF BEING REJECTED, MISUSED, TAKEN FOR GRANTED AND DECEIVED.. HEAR IT FROM THE HORSES MOUTH GIRL I GAVE HIM SOOOO MANY "BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT CARDS" UNTIL I HAD TO RESHUFFLE THE DECK  IT IS THE MOST HEAR WRENCHING FEELING IN THE WORLD AND THE ONLY THING THAT KEEPS U SANE IS THE FEAR OF DOING SOMETHING U MAY REGRET AND GOD. BEEN THERE AND  ITS NOT A GOOD PLACE TO B IVE LEARANED IN THE RECENT MONTHS TO LOVE FROM AFAR AND NEVER LET MEN GET UNDER UR SKIN KEEP UR GUARDS UP MR RIGHT MAY NOT B MR RIGHT NOW LOL

Answer 10

yes 2 times...the 2nd time was the worse..i trusted this lad with my life..and he crushed me..i didnt get over it for agessss and i never listened to any advice people gave me cuz it was hard to see the light at the time..

but now ive realized someone else MUCH BETTER is always round the corner..now i always say to my self 'the rest is still unwritten' Natasha bedingfield haha its cheesy but it really helps =]

it takes time to heal a broken heart...this is defiantly true

Answer 11

My heart was broken when I was 19, and I've been trying to leave it behind now that I'm in my early 40's. I once had a crush on a family friend and built my dreams on what I imagined he was like. There was a huge age difference between us and he backed off because it was kind of too weird for him to contemplate going out with a girl so young, he was in his 30's.

Some relatives tried to set us up, but it backfired badly. I believed him when he told my uncle he'd think about it and let us know, I felt so humiliated. It wasn't his fault entirely, one of my aunts engineered this in the first place. She would have known he was out of my league, he was a man of the world and I was a young, insecure girl. There wasn't much there to build on, I don't think we had anything in common besides a similar cultural background and the fact that our families were friends.

The aunt I suspect tried to build my hopes up 'casually' mentioned to me when I was a teenager that he praised me once about how much I'd grown. He'd known me my whole life and he remembered me as a little kid. I already had a crush on him and hearing that generated many thoughts about him, and my hopes kept building until they came down with a thud.

There came a time when I had to shut him out of my mind and get on with my life, and I'm proud to say I made that decision before I'm aware he met his wife. He's been happily married for more than 20 years and he's got three children. I eventually married, too, and had two children of my own.

While my marriage didn't last, I still didn't begrudge him his choice of bride, he was entitled to marry the woman he wanted to. Also you can't force someone to love you. I've made a conscious decision not to think about him any more, although I sometimes think that he's the one person I really fell in love with as a youngster and that's hard to forget.

When I gave up back then as a young girl, I went on to college and completed an accounting diploma. I proved to myself that I could move on with life and I'm happy with the things that I did. Our families have had some contact over the years and he knows about my family situation and was supportive about my university study plans I told him about last year.

On the whole, I try to shut him out every time I think about him. By talking about it here, this is my way of moving on with things, acknowledging what he meant to me once when he was single, but also it's a realisation of what is in the past and could not be changed.

I've decided that I've grieved enough for what might have been, and I've had other catastrophes since to deal with like a broken marriage. Ironically my past disappointment helped me overcome my divorce, because I knew that I could survive again like I did the first time I'd had my heart broken. I'm going to concentrate on meeting eligible males, who at least show an interest in me and I have something in common with them. I won't settle for less anymore.

However many times your heart is broken, you must think about picking up the pieces and creating new happy experiences for yourself. No person is worth staying miserable forever about. Go out, meet new people, and give yourself a chance to move on with life.

Answer 12

yes, once. It just made me a stronger person.

Answer 13

I thought i had once, but then i realised i wasnt in love in the first place, it was a childish crush, but your not alone, just dont get too far in then hopefully it wont happen.

Good luck (:

Cat

x x x

Answer 14

Yes - everyone has had that happen at some point.  I think I am up to 3 times, or is it 4 now...

Answer 15

Currently trying to mend my broken heart.

Answer 16

no, ive been dissapointed and let down a lot,

never heart broken thankfully.

Answer 17

Well done for leaving - I stuck it out too long and, believe me, that just makes the pain even worse.

Paul McKenna has a great book and cd set called How To Mend Your Broken Heart (title may vary with different editions) - made me feel a lot better, although that was before I found out the slag he left me for was pregnant...

You will feel better soon, in the meantime get out as much as you can - if for no other reason than that is the best way to find the RIGHT person next time.   In your case too is there another broken heart??

Good Luck  

Answer 18

No, i havn't although there is heart problems in my family history. The heart, thankfully is  just a muscle pumping blood. It doesn't feel emotion or know emotion in any way.It just pumps blood.